I really want to take my physical relationship with my boyfriend to the next level. We're just at "heated" makeout sessions. One time there was touching through clothing and then it never happened again. I've started hinting at it and "accidently" (;)) letting his hand brush against my breasts or inner thigh or resting my hands on his lower abs sooo close yet not quite making contact. We've even talked about it, but once we're together it just never happens. Actually, he's told me what he wants to do but he was afraid I'd stop him and be freaked out. I straight out said "yeah, I'm ready for that" and we still don't.To sum this up, how did you start your more physical relationships? Any stories or ideas are greatly appreciated!!! Thanks!
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How..?
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I think he is shy about it. has he done it to other girls b4?my first kiss was really hard for me to do. i was like..13 and i didnt want to do it because i was shy. so i didnt do it for like...3 months goin out with this girl. then i finally did. and we did it more and more. maybe one u break the ice by u making the first move. he will do it after that because he wont be shy.
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I think you definitely need to make the first move. You might be afraid to, but he sounds even more afraid than you would be. Obviously because of what he's said about it, he wouldn't be against it or stop you. And guys like it when girls make the first move. Just move your hand closer, or even take his hand and put it up your shirt or something like that. If he doesn't want to continue then don't obviously, but if he likes it, just tell him it's okay. Once you get past the first time or two, you guys should be more comfortable with it.
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I would be sooo happy to be in his position! A gf that wants him to touch her...