well once again i have a little situation on my hands... any help is appreciatedwell here it goes....i met a girl named jackie through a friend of mine....and we started hanging out and became very good friends. Jackie has a sister Liz, who just started the same school as me, and i have been giving her rides to school lately. She is gorgeous, hilarious, and well to make a long story short...i ended up having strong feelings for her. Jackie is totaly cool with it and wants me to date her...heres where the problem is...i Turn 18 in august....and she's 15...which is young. I think i can look past that...(i usually dont) however the real problem is she is one of my best friends....i like her alot...and i dont want to fuck up our friendship over my feeelings for her...i mean if i can date her...awesome. but i dont want to sacrifice my friendship with her at the same time if she says no...and its not that im afraid of beign turned down... its im afraid of making things wierd between us because im with her every day....shes one of my best friends...and i dont want to ruin that. But at the same time, i want her to know i have feelings for her....so now what do i do? thanks.
Tough Decision... :(
your signature says it all hon.
If you don't let her know that at least you care a lot about her, then you will never know what happens next. She might feel exactly the same for you, and things could be great. But i see where your coming from that you don't want to lose her as a friend. I think this kinda situation is the hardest, cos there is SO much to lose and SO much to gain. Why not ask her sister if she likes you 'in that way', at least then you will know whether to take the risk or not - good luck with it :smile:
Anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law...Hope your not in one of those states...Otherwise, the advice part was already taken care of by AngelWitch of course