I am good at giving advice on everything no matter what it is. But when it comes to me I dont know what to do. So I am going to ask you guys all a question. Do you ever feel that life and love are the same thing? or do you feel that love is just a figment of your imagination? Well I feel that its neither. But I can never get my shit in a line witht his crap. My girlfriend who I have been with for 3 years off and on have had some problems in the past. But her and I have had other relationships in between and one of my past relationships I cant seem to forget even tho her and I no longer talk. It just seems like there should be more to us than friends. But yea i love my girl with all my heart and even tho she is having problems I just dont know what to do ne more. She knows i am always there but she sometimes treats me like shit and complains about her weight and she wants to lose some weight but she doesnt do ne thing about it. She also lays around and sleeps a lot and i know thats not good for her but i dont want to tell her and have her get pissed off at me so what do you folks think i should do?
Life and Love
CnD4ever, you have a lot going for you. [yea i love my girl with all my heart] shows you know the essence of a relationship. [I just dont know what to do] suggests you think you need to fix something rather than be somebody. Share who you are, what you feel, what you aspire to. Encourage her to do the same. Have fun!