I'm gonna try not to get carried away with the length of this. I am a 20 year old guy and I was in a relationship with a girl for 4 years. We split up back in October and I have been single for about 6 months now. I met this girl that lives near my new job, and for the first time in my life I don't have feelings for her. I have kind of dated two or three times since my long relationship, but never as long as this particular one. I never had feelings for any of them either really except for my long relationship.First off, I am very sexually experienced and I am 90% up to date on women issues such as pregnancy and periods and things. This particular girl was someone I did not really want to be sexually active with mentally, but physically my hormones took over. What can I say, I'm a guy. I'm gonna tell all here, because I am an honest person. This was the second girl I have ever had sex with and some of the weirdest things happened. First off I was extremely nervous for no apparent reason, like I didn't want to be and it was almost involuntary. The entire time I could not get it up. First time that has ever happened to me. Well I managed to get a nut somehow with a halfway errect penis and of course I was wearing a condom. I know what I'm fixing to say is extremely stupid-I realize that now, but it's part of the story. I figured that now since I had gotten a nut I would keep going so she could get hers, and I thought maybe if I took off my condom, it would give me full sensation and maybe I would get a better errection. After I got the nut I removed the used condom and wiped my penis off with a towel, and then went back to having sex with her. """STUPID MISTAKE"""" I did this out of desperation and realized how bad of a decision it is now. the good thing is that she was totally ok with the fact that I could not get it up, and we agreed to keep it between us. That surprised me and really calmed my nerves. I asked her later on when she had her last period and she said a week before that. If I remember correctly the best time for a woman to concieve is about half way in between her periods. Correct me if I'm wrong on this. So, I didn't do it right at the perfect time but it wasnt but about maybe seven days from the middle of her periods. I know I didn't ejaculate inside of her but I know that it doesn't even take that. That's why I'm worried.That was about three weeks ago and she should be having her period within the next week or so. We have had sex several times since and some good news I was able to get it up and perform as required. Of course I used a condom those times. I haven't asked her about it because I don't want her to know I'm worried about it. She is not a girl that I would want to have kids with or spend my life with. I made a big mistake and now I'm experiencing this mental torture. If worse comes to worse and she does end up pregnant, of course I would take responsability. I will be so relieved when she has her period, just to know that even though I made a big mistake, I learned from it and it won't happen again. If you have any hints or any advice, anything to add to this, I would appreciate it.
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Very regretable mistake!
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I really hope for both of you that she isn't pregnant, and of course you know there is a slight chance that she could be.Its better if she isn't worried about it too, as this could make her period even later. So, if you can don't tell her that you are worried, or say anything that will worry her about it and hopefully things will happen about the same time as they usually do, and you will be put out of your misery.As a woman i can't understand why you would sleep with someone you didn't want to - and carry on doing it LOL I have 3 children, 2 concieved while on the birthcontrol pill, and one while using condoms, SO, even tho you think you are being safe, things do happen, and if you know for sure that this girl is someone you woudn't want children with, then i suggest you seriously rethink what you are doing. Hope everything goes well, keep us in the loop.
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Well precum can contain sperm, and not all women ovulate in the middle of their cycle, and not all women ovulate at the same time each month. I would share your concerns with her. If you're having a sexual relationship with her, it's best to keep everything out in the open and not hidden.
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I only meant, don't make her worried, if she isn't already(in case worrying makes her periods late), I didn't mean you ought to hide things from her!
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I hope everything works out for you!