I've heard some horror stories from my friends about their first time having sex. I was wondering if it is possible for a female to have an orgasm on her first time having sex? Is there any way to prepare yourself so it won't hurt as much?
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First time questions?
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Can you have an orgasm? Why not? However, chances are that you might not be comfortable enough with the experience the first time in order to relax and enjoy the sensations.
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Don't expect too much from your first time. Its usually a lot of fumbling about, and playing 'find the hole' from the guys perspective LOL or was that just me? LOLTo try and lessen any pain from penetration, you have to make sure that you are completely ready to do it, emotionally as well as physically. If you are worried, scared or nervous, your insides will tighten and it will be more painful. You have to try and be totally relaxed, and have extra lubrication on hand, that should help it slip in easier and hurt less. To be honest if you have to 'prepare' yourself then it doesn't sound like your ready.As for orgasms, I know i didn't, I had no idea how that would work LOL I would very much doubt you would orgasm the first time, but its not impossible.
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Thank you for that information! About the preparation question, I asked that because I heard there were some kind of "exercises" you could do to make your first time less painful. I doubt it is true according to the facts.
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Inserting fingers before having intercourse might make things easier. Insert one finger, then two, then three, if you can (not necessarily all the way). If you (or your b.f.) can do that, the penis entering the first should be less traumatic.
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For me we couldn't get more then one finger in without it hurting, then when we actually had sex it didn't even hurt at all. and my bf isn't small or anything like that either lol. Just make sure you use lubricated condoms or something like that and it should slide in no problem if you aren't worried about it. i wasn't nervous at all, so that could be part of it perhaps.
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That kind of doesn't make sense unless your b.f.'s girth is smaller than your finger's, or you were really keyed up when you touched yourself.
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I must have penis-shaped fingers. But it seems to me that the flexibility and thinness of most fingers would make it a lot easier to insert than an erect penis.
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Seems fair...you've paid your dues.
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i would recommend you being on top, thats how i was my first time in the beginning, then when i got comfortable with it in we switched positions. it makes you have more control and if its getting too intense you can just slide it out whenever you want
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i had my 1st tym lyk 2 days ago. i put her legs on my sholders and her legs wer raised nd together. i had no problem finding the hole and she sed it felt even bttr that all her friends had sed. licked her out loads 1st nd she sed the feeling woz undescribable. we still never finished tho, it wuz her 1st tym so very uncomfy. stil can be fun 1st tym tho...
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One of my mates actually had an orgasm on her first time. But she was very ready to have sex, as they had been together for almost a year by then.From what I can tell you, just be very relaxed. Otherwise you'll tighen and it will hurt more. Of course it's gonna hurt, I can say it wont. But the better prepared you are, it may help with some of the dicomfort. Heck I was still having discomfort after our like tenth time =P