I'm 16, a guy and I know masturbation is normal and healthy and not to feel ashamed about it, but even so I still feel horrible after I do it. I try to convince myself that I don't do it, try to forget, and think I'm not that 'kind' of person. (No offense to people who do masterbate, to you I say 'Good for you! And do it within moderation!')Anyways this wasn't a problem cuz when I started I used to only do it it twice a month. So little, cuz afterwards it would take me a week to recover, to 'cleanse' my head. Not just of porn related thoughts but also of the guilt, of the shame and the general horrible feelings I felt. During this time I would be distant from the people closest to me in anyway possible because I felt I would taint that other 'world' of mine, the one where masturbation isn't involved.Then I started to do it more, and my 'recovery' phase started to last less and less.It went to being from twice a week, and only needing a day or two to recover.Now, I do it 3 times a day and only need to do a small activity after to recovery.It's become like a switch, I can turn it off and on, and now it's so fucking easy.It dosn't interfere with my life, but when I start doing it three times a day and have rub mark and continuing even though I'm hurt, I start thinking I'm addicted to masterbating.It dosn't interfere with my life, and I agree it is a healthy thing, but I think it's like alcohol; 'It's good within moderation.'(Hehe, 'don't wack and drive', they should make a banner...)It does feel good, but afterwards I go through hell. I feel tainted, and I don't want to see my friends because I don't want them to see me liek this.I know my friends do it to, but to me they're perfect and I wouldn't look at anythign they do negatively.But when it comes to myself I feel horrible, it's the only way to describe it. I can't change the way I look at myself but I can do it less.I don't want to stop it all together, (that would be fucking impossible to ANYONE)but I would like to go back to say 2-3 times a week. I want to do this because I don't like the person it makes me.That 'noticing the color of the sky' thing? It may sound pathetic but it's not so bad. Sometimes you just don't want to feel anythign sexualy related. Kinda like having a boner when your suppose to read to kids. (Mind you, thats just a metaphor) It's inappropriate and unpleasant.Sometimes you just don't want to masterbate, and enjoy the day in a different way. But do to an addiction those type's of days get fucked up...How do I stop!?
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Masturbation & Porn
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i agree masturbation in moderations but theres no harm in it really (unless it hurts) but porn on the other hand. I've left school and i've got nothing to do, companies wont hire me as im 15, and not covered by their insurance. So i spend a lot of time try to look for porn, dude i am addicted but i need to give it up. but self control over porn, especially when i get turned on is way hard man.
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well, I've always felt bad looking at porn, i dunno why, ever since i got a girlfriend thoguh i havent looked at any, its been 2 weeks. every once and a while i think "god i wanna look at some...nah, I got my girl, why do i need porn?" and then i just don't
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masterbation makes you high for like 2 seconds when the good part comes
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1-3 times a WEEK!?!?! :fearful: I'd explode! That's gotta be like half the number of times I do it per DAY!
Go have fun... some day, you'll be 60 years old... you won't be able to whip 'em out quite the same then :wink:
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Originally Posted By: AlphabeticalLol, fantasizing about my I ask? You cant really jerk off to nothingYeah, that's why I want to stop completely. I mean, whether you can visually see it, or are just fantasizing about it in your head, it doesn't exactly go hand-in-hand with being a devout Christian. Masturbation itself isn't prohibited by the bible, but doing it to porn or these thoughts is. That's my reason for wanting to stop, because of my religion. (And I don't feel like my religion really limits me, and I'm okay with this and that I need to stop) I've tried to just stop, but that didn't work, so I need to find something else to try that will hopefully work.but it really is hard to stop wanking it to porn, almost like an addiction..
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Masturbation itself isn't prohibited by the bible, but doing it to porn or these thoughts is
They mention porn and sexual thoughts in the Bible?
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The visionaries who wrote the bible didn't say anything against Internet porn.
The only solution is to get married (to a woman), fantasize about her and only her, and then choke the chicken without worry or guilt.
