My parents saw my cuts

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A few days ago I made about 20 scraches on my leg with a razor, and this morning my parents saw it. I don't know what too do, they don't understand. The first thing my mom said to me is "why didn't you feel it? are you on somthing?" that really got me pist.damnit I'm panicing bad right now and i have to go to school in a few minutes..this is bad. what kind of thing do you think my parents could do??

I think you need to get help. Cutting yourself tends to make things worse. (Trust me. I know) Try to talk to your parents and explain things clearly. They may not understand, but it's up to you to get help.

In reply to: what kind of thing do you think my parents could do?? get you help.

i've been really down beofre and considered cutting myself.just yesterday infact.
i figured it cant feel to good.and it wont give me relief.
id rather get piercings.
thats cool!not trendy cool,but rush cool.
you should get help sweety.you're welcome to PM me or chat on here with us anytime.
look after your skin,it's the only one you have :smile:
take care hun.

cutting does relieve pain, infact lately it's been the only thing delaying my suicide.

Cutting yourself tends to make things worse. (Trust me. I know) Try to talk to your parents and explain things clearly. They may not understand, but it's up to you to get help. HUGS N CUDDLES::

hey, it good that you could resist it and realise that it wont help u hun, and peircing look so much cooler, can be very sexy

maybe that ur parents no they will be able to help you. Subconciously you must want help or you probably would have hide ur cuts better. Just get the help that is provided and don't fight it to much. They are gonna want you to get better.

i saw a the film thirteen.that girl,the main actress cut herself.it was like her relief,yeah.well,it's not a good one.do something easier:)like go for a run,do a hundred sit ups,etc.dont cut!take things one day at a time!life is daunting if you're constantly thinking about the next 85 years.just try improve things today...and build on them tomorrow...and the next day. and so on.why are you so sad anyway?boy friend troubles,school,friends?haha,i fall under all those.but yeah,please,you are worth our time here.and your own.look after yourself.and remember,one day at a time.maybe today you should go speak to your mum?maybe not?but be constructive.if you're down go watch a movie,read a book,work out.strive for it.im sure cutting has been your coping mechanism for a while,and it helps you,but seek others.you can do it quack.

my girlfriend wants to see that movie (13) we awere going to rent it one time but my mom ended up taking us and not her's to blockbuster so we couldn't i was kinda glade. she's told me it about life and all about things .. whiel she was looking for a movie (lol couldn't be R....gr my mother! ) but i read the back of it. drugs , sex, cutting, i don't think i could take it.... i been wondering since if i want to try and watch it with her or not.

quacks, i don't know what to say to help but i understand. i know how it is to want and need the thoughts to leave and the hurt and stuff to go away. I hate to be a asshole but people that don't do it don't get it. my parents don't...but there trying to understand it. i haven't fucked up in a while...i almost did a while back but i knew i would so i didn't move from my desk. i email a freind and explode when i can't force myself to go to my parents.... lol some times it's somethign stupid and small, but that's how people don't get it. they don't get how somethign tiny can blow up and look hudge. (it's like the oily hair thing..and i'm sorry for lasing and being a asshole.. i should have known they were messing around.) i'm sick of holding back things cuz i'm afraid of what some one will say.... i'm sick of hidding! tired of Crying! i want to fly free!!

Cutting is an attempt to focus ones emotional pain to an area that you are able to deal with, Please feal free to share anything with us tell us what is the issue that makes you need to cut? I hope you will be able to feal a more satisfying release by sharing your pain/issues with us.

done that b4 cats get blaimed for alot. our inside cats are declawed now though. like today one of mine (ours) took off with my bath tube stopper.. the coco cat had it playng with it and it was in my brother's room. out manx cat takes keys off too so we got to keep them hung on the key holder things by the door. Ooook how did i got from lieing on the cats about cut to cats hidding keys. sorries. lol

When thoughts of suicide are the strongest in your mind, what's the sane thing to do?

for me its just to lay down and cry until i can get my mind on something else and move on temporarily.

temporary... hahahahhaI thought I replied to this, to update you all with what happend... my memory is fucking with me, or somthing.Well my mom was gunna set up a psyciatrist apointment for me, but she didn't. I think she forgot or somthing.I haven't been cutting myself, it's too hard to find spots that no one is going to see (summer). ah damnit! i forgot what i was gunna type! grr fucking anxiety I hate myself

most people (and myself included) don't really think on "what time of year" it is when it comes to self harming, but to only try to "cover" the fact once it's done.

what?i didn't stop "self harming" i just stopped cutting myself, scars are hard to hide during the summer.

In reply to: I haven't been cutting myself, it's too hard to find spots that no one is going to see (summer). What I'm trying to say, is that for most people when they get into the state of mine that they are going to cut or harm, they don't "look for places to cut or harm". Most have a "comfort zone", a place that they go back to over and over again to do it, whether it be arms, legs or whatever. And when you’re in the "state of mind" thinking about how you’re going to cover it up or make excuses doesn't come into the equation.

am I under the whatever catugory? lol i have to back my man up here... whaen someone is a cutter or self harmer (cutting goes along with self harming. burning ur self, brusing, anything that make s what u want to go away go away. ) but anyways they don't sit and thing when they feel like shit oh i can't brun my arm there...oh i can't cut in that area i have to go swimming tomoorw .or what ever. it don't happen. what happens is their mind want cut off . it want shut up and and it must stop ....how do u stop it .....make it go away. and that's just what is done. oh well what ever.......