Gay or Straigh?

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Friend and myself did it many years back. Me bj and getting anal often from him before. Quit doing for a while it but remain friends. Lately however he will get drunk and come and visit. Minsan open na ang zipper or sometimes, no underwear. He allows getting sucked kaya lang turns around when nearing orgasm. When the cumming urge is gone, allows again for more sucking and sometimes really want to enter me again. This has happend like every month. He is married and with kids but do this visits to me often lately. Is he straight? He says he is but lately he is also biting my fingers while we are doing this but never allowed kissing before.

gay and in denial or bi.

I would say Bi.

more or less confused i thinkgive it some more time and you will find out your answer

describe your relationship more. any alcohol involved? drugs? how long did it go on for?

Actually very good friends. Often nights he visits he has consumed alcohol. Dont know if really dead drunk or just pretending. Undone zipper, or no underwear when he comes to the couch. The last time I think we did it for over 3 hours. He would not cum. But it would get hard again and again. Great time but not sure if he is really as straight as he says. Enjoying it though!!!

I assume that you yourself are gay and looking for a relationship with him? im still confused as to what your asking are u asking if he is gay or if you are?

Yes. Is he gay or straight?

Well if he continues to go to you for sex as you say he is probably gay, for a simple answer. But he won't kiss you so he might just be looking for action and care about you, emotionally as a friend and a friend only but i would classify him as BI.

I am surprised because lately he has been biting fingers and allow some dry kissing and allowing some french - very little though. What is happening? Is he turning to the gay side???

I might be a minority but i dont believe sexual orientation is a choice, i think your born gay straight or bi. I guess certain tramatic events could change this but thats my personal believe. Hopefully no one runs with that and ignores your story. If u need to talk feel free to Pm but i again i think he is Bi

I agree, paulpierce.

mnlboy, your friend is married with children, and you're having sex with him outside the marriage. You should consider how you feel about that.

bi no dought :smirk: :smirk:

How about pedo, as long as we're throwing words around. But words are words. What's the big deal? He is what he is.He makes a big deal out of it though. Apparently he needs alcohol before allowing himself gay sex--or before allowing sex outside his marriage. How about saying no to combining alcohol and sex?

I know quite a few people who have families but still have to go elsewhere to fulfill their sexual desires. I would imagine that in today's world it would be hard to live a gay life due to public opinion which some people are heavily reliant upon. If you and this man are intimate then you should at least be able to talk to one another..communication is very important and if you can't talk to him and tell him your feelings and ask what is going on maybe you shouldn't be on a sexual level with him until you can do so. You can listen to our opinions all day but you will truely never know unless you ask him. only he knows his heart and mind.

bi

Gay and slowly coming to terms with it. He knows you're a safe zone and he's going to get more and more intimate with you. Soon you will be making out for longer than you will believe, then he will stop fucking you and start making love to you. I can't tell you how he will really feel about you though. He will love you because you accepted him when he thought no one else would, but whether he will love you for you or not I can't tell you.Just a hunch, ya know, from one gay man to another.

no i think he wont make love to you. im starting to realize its an anal fetish IMO i could be wrong he just wants to be in control.MY 2 cents