I hate my parents

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Shut up, I know my mom well enough to know about her.She can put me in advance classes, fine, but then she shouldn't yell at me constantly for not getting good grades and disown me because I'm not doing good in the class. I'm not the smartest guy around, plus I don't care about school so I don't put much effort in it.

The problem here is that most people don't know the situation InSearch is in, and are making assumptions that would hold for most families, but aren't valid in this one. It's not helping InSearch when that happens.

How do we know Insearch isnt a drama queen? a attention seeker?

Trust me, his mom is a piece of work.

Not everyone is like you.

I'm tired of this thread...

i'm definetly not any of those things.. I still don't think that your mother came on here .. i think it was you pretending to be your mom.. everyone does it.. just not to that extent...

Good think my goal is not to convince you to believe me then, isn't it? If you don't believe me, fine, liev in your own little bubble where you think everyone has great parents

Trust me.. i KNOW that alot of people don't have good parents.. I just think you're super overreacting.. and that you shouldnt try to influence people based on your bad decisions

And since you know all about my situation you know that I'm over reacting, cool.

cuz there are a few here that do HELP and go beyond this stupid forum to try to help. . . and DO help. the point of this freakign site is to help not point fingers and call people things and say shit about them when no one knows wut the fuck people have had to fucking live threw. and YES caleb is fucking pissed off!!!!

Me thinketh you don't know his particular situation and should probably leave this one alone pink. I have to agree with Ineligible and sdp here. His mother seems like a real nasty piece of work. There ARE indeed people out there who are in situations just like InSearch's.Read the book "A Child Called It" by Dave Pelzer. This has been documented as one of the worst cases of child abuse in U.S. History. The woman actually locked her child in a bathroom with a bathtub full of ammonia and bleach. Maybe his mom isn't that bad. But emotional and verbal abuse can sometimes be worse than actual physical pain.

interesting convo guys but i have some advice for both insearch and the guy who started this post. please don't bite off my head for this im just giving an opinion since alot of people on here like snapping at me lol. but i have a suggestion. why don't you give your parents (specifically your mom) alot of love and attention. show her that you care about her and that you love her even if inside you really don't. this will give her a feelling that after how horrid she has treated you that you aren't like her. She'll realize that the pain she has caused you doesn't affect and that it has only caused you to love her more. Even though you may hate your mom you have to respect her. After all this is the same women who gave you birth. If she really hated you would probably be abused or out in the street somewhere. Be happy that you actually have a mother. My friend at school is abused by her stepmom constantly, but she still respects her and takes care of her. It seemed to much of a cinderella story to believe her until I actually went to her house and saw how her mom would whip her with those big rulers for forgetting to leave her shoes at the door. So just try and give your mom a chance and show her that no matter how she treats you, you will be more positive about it and not be like her. I hope this works.

That makes no sense and there is no way in hell I would try that

ha.. big surprise.. and yes it does make sense... you expect people to be nice to you when you treat them like shit...

actually what Japanchick said makes sense. im try that method with my aunt :smile:

I expect people to be nice to me when I tread them like shit? Did you just pull that out of your ass, because you need to shove it back in there

insearch are you ok? I am really sorry for the way your parents have treated you. No one should be treated like that. But you don't have to take your anger out on the ppl trying to help you, you know?

I don't need help and even if I did need help I wouldn't come to you bunch.

well sorry anyway if I got you upset. I know I can't give as good advice as you gave in my other post but I understand why you're upset.

1. You didn't get me upset.2) I didn't give you advice, I stated the obvious.3) You don't understand so don't say you do