Hey all,Well first some background info: I've been out with my girlfriend for about two months (it was 2 months yesterday) now... she lives in a different city so I don't get to see her much... and if I get grounded every weekend I can hardly ever see her... but when I do see her it's a great feeling .. what do they say: absence makes the heart grow fonder?!? Well anyways... things are going rather slow between us... whcih may be a good thing I don't know... she's my first girlfriend and I'm her first boyfriend so we're both rather new about this...So far we've only hugged at the few times we've seen each other and just held hands and all that... but now I kind of want to take a step further... and the next step for me is to kiss her... But I have no idea how to do it... how do I hint that I want to kiss her? What can I say? How do I know when the right time is?I see her again (after about 2-3 weeks of not seeing her) tomorrow... I can't wait to see her again But I was thinking of kissing her tomorrow if people here can give me a little help I might be able to do it tomorrow..Thx in advance already
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Kiss?
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Kissing someone the first time is usually all about timing. And you shouldn't really worry because when the time is right you'll just know. When my boyfriend first kissed me we were outside his car. We were holding hands and he stepped in close to hug me. He held me for a long time and when I raised my head up from his shoulder and looked at him he leaned in and kissed me.
Pay attention to her. Watch what she does. If when you're talking or if she's getting ready to leave and she's looking at you all starry eyed it's probably a safe bet that she wants you to kiss her. Just remember what I said, it's all about timing and you'll know when it's right. Let your heart lead you. Don't try to lead your heart.
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I agree with cenfath....however i would like to add a bit of advice. If you guys have been goin out for 2 months im pretty sure you can kiss her at any moment and she wont care. Ive been in your situation many of times and i worry worry worry but then it just happens and im like, wow that was easy. dont sweat it and just go in for one, im bet you she wont care at all
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Thx for the advice aTa7 ... I see what you mean with it being easier than I think ... I've had situations like that and I can see how this whole thing would be easier than I think...But I saw her today which was wonderful.. but I didn't get a chance to kiss her. The original plan was that we would watch her/our friend's soccer game and then all three go back to my place and maybe watch a movie or something... I was planning on kissing her during the movie or some other time at my place... but then she couldn't go to my place after the game so she just went home after the game... Hopefully next time....
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In reply to: she's probably as nervous as you are about this Very true! dont sweat it man, the time will come
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@no1sex:I wasn't really sad about today... I was just disappointed that I couldn't kiss her today because I felt sure I was going to do it... but there's always next time!@aTa7:Yeah... and I can't wait for that time to come