Hey can any girl tell me...

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What's wrong with me and why I'm undesireable to other girls. I'd post a pic but I don't know if it's allowed.

Pics are not allowed. You could send them to Diver though and I'm sure he'd post them on the "unofficial web site".

Since Your own post was so short, I dont really have alot to say nor recommend.You being undesirable can come from two very important things.Most importantly, Your personality. Dont think about what You look like and such. Think about who You are as a person.But really, I cannot analyze Your personality, nor actions without You giving us some actual info on Your past tries with girls, about who Youare and what do You think of girls, whom are You looking for and where do You hang out and such.Give me that and hopefully I am able to give You better feedback.

White lines - from reading your other posts I think you are projecting yourself to women as a sad loser - that how you seem to see yourself. Get help for your depression and things will look up, you will get more confident, and that will change the way other people, and yes women, view you.

You're a druggie, you're depressed, and you hate yourself. No women wants a guy like that.

I'm not a druggie, I just use drugs. There's no harm in smoking pot, you'd be surprised if you knew all the people in your life who use it reguarlly or have at least at one point in their lives. Successful lawyers, doctors, etc. can all be "druggies".

And I know plenty of girls who smoke and who go out with guys who smoke.

Umm have you read your own posts? You admit to using drugs all the time....that's a druggie.

I agree with amanda....in fact i broke up with my last girlfriend because it partly had to do with the fact she used to do drugs and frankly i didnt trust her that she wouldnt do it again. i dont trust anyone who uses drugs so i chose not to involve them in my life

Ok then go back to your DARE meetings where you all sit around and share stories about how marijuana makes you murder your family with an axe and jump out of windows.

Hey - Chill out! You asked for their opinions and that's what you got. If you don't like it then do something about it.

Thank you cenfath

I'd say it has nothing to do with your looks.Whenever you meet someone you're representing yourself, presenting yourself. You can only present yourself to someone as the way that you see yourself.If you have other issues, emotional baggage, people will see that. Nobody wants to take on emotional baggage in the form of a new relationship. Relationships don't start because someone takes pity on someone else and wants to help out. Relationships start because two people enjoy each other's company and would like to commit themselves to someone.If you go around portraying this image of you with emotional problems, baggage, lack of confidence and self esteem, potential partners will probably steer clear, because dealing with those kind of problems isn't easy, and relationships are enough work as is.Get your act together, find some direction in life, find something you want to do, and then focus on it. If someone else has done it, why can't you? You're just as good as the next guy, get up, get out there and do what you were made to do, and do it with confidence!Portray the image of you with direction, goals, confidence and self esteem, believe in yourself and others will too.

This is amazing how well SilentRain put these words and the meaning overall.Truly fabulous, it cant be said any better.

No problem. I know I should be objective but this "woe is me. Poor, poor pitiful me," bit is getting quite frustrating. Especially when the people complaining really aren't that bad looking. I don't know what this guy looks like but I'm willing to bet he's not bad looking and his problem is his attitude but when people tell him that he gets angry. Why? I don't understand it. Don't ask for someone's opinion if you don't want it. And if you ask for the opinion don't get all pissy if it wasn't what you wanted to hear. If you want someone to tell you what you want to hear go talk to someone who's not a very good friend and doesn't really care. He'll tell you what you want to hear. "It's not your fault man. It's all that b*tches fault. They're just ho's." Get real.Silent Rain ~ You said it a lot nicer than how I would've said it. Go you! Rock on!

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Real nice..."fat chicks" won't want you.

In reply to: Should I just try to date fat chicks for practice to eventually work my way up to someone attractive? I wouldn't find it intimidating to ask a fat girl out since most often they'd be overjoyed. Hot girls just scare me though. What the hell man!You just lost any respect I had for You with this line...What are You doing... Categorizing people like that? Fat chicks? Who gives You the right?Damnit Im not easy to piss off, but people who say things like that, even as ridiculous as whatever he said just sounded, its a total BS for me.Guy like this cannot be helped. This is just the way he is.Work Your way up? Damn You...

Alright my bad then, I'm not categorizing anyone, I just have been told by a lot of people that "I have to learn to crawl before walking" when I point out hot chicks. And wtf is amandas problem, honestly shes got the rudest responses for anything

You're going to get a rude response when you make a rude post.

I wasn't trying to be rude, I deleted it anyways so it's over. I think you just judge me because I posted I used drugs or something.