I've been meaning to ask this girl out for a while now, Carolyn. It's only lately that I've been really serious about doing it though. My main question is: where should I ask her out to?I have a hard time coming up with things to talk about, and things to do. I'm not the best person at making conversation It's not like I have a hard time making decisions or that I'm insincere, it's just that I tend to draw a blank and get frustrated with myself.I've known this girl since just before the start of the school year (longer than that if you include me recognizing her from elementary, but that's not important), and I've only just started to become good friends with her. She's a year younger than I am, and I don't get to see her as often as I'd like. We're both in track, but she's also on the girls soccer team so she goes to that after school most days. Other than that there's only a few places where I occasionally see her.Any suggestions or advice would be appreciated
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How to ask her out
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Hmmmm well if there one thing ive learned.....its to not think to much. Ive found that having a plan and sitting there thinking about what you're gonna say doesnt work....but thats what ive found. But as far as askin her out, i would just plain and simple ask if she wants to go out sometime. If she asks where just say, hmmmm iono maybe a movie or some dinner or something. Just go with the situation and dont worry so much, ull be fine....but i understand where ur comin from.
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I'd say start off a conversation about track and/or soccer... then when there's an opening just ask her out. Simple, done
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I agree with these two. But has a flirting/romantic element entered your conversations. Have you given signals that you are interested? Has she? And work at sharing emotions.
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yup if ya cant ask her straightforward than look for an opening in everyday conversation or the time honored"uh do u like have a uhm uhmm boyfriend??girl: like no,boy:oh uh umm cool so uh is there neone like possible ?girl:ya thers one guy,than a that if she starts looking deep in ur eyes or if she starts looking around nervously or something like that than thatd be a good time to ask her out or if she seems really interested try a quick kiss than apoligize and see wut happens from there
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Yeah! Being nervous actually could help. You don't get nervous over things that don't matter.love is meaningless without life