Man, that's a hell of a dilemma. You know if you do the right thing some douchebag is gonna swoop in, but if you make a move you're that guy. If I had to make a call I'd say be there for her and after say a month tell her how you feel about her and that you know she's in a tough place but when the time comes you'd like to be with her.I sincerely hope the guy makes it though. Although he doesn't sound so bright Driving Under the Infuence.
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Guy might die and i love his girlfriend
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In reply to: doing what? offering condolences and hoping it leads to something more, I think what people have a problem with is a decent person would offer condolences to a friend cos they cared and NOT cos it was a way of 'getting in there'.
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In reply to: I think what people have a problem with is a decent person would offer condolences to a friend cos they cared and NOT cos it was a way of 'getting in there'. Yeah I'm saying that in the situation i would genuinely fucking care, but im still a rapist.
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You would not! Your being nice to eventually get some! It has nothing to do with caring, you have already clearly expressed you wouldnt care if the guy died
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And what gives you the right to make the assumptions? I stated that if I were in this dudes situation, the guy was my friend, died, real tragic, and I liked his girlfriend I would take the oppurtunity to both support her and eventually find my way as his replacement. If I didn't, someone else would. And it happens all the time in movies and no one calls the heroes rapists.
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Yes, I think there's a common feeling that an action isn't good unless it doesn't benefit you - that preferably it should be against your interests. I think it goes back to Puritan beliefs that pleasure is bad.However I think that while doing something for another person is especially noble if it hurts you to do it, doing something that helps someone else and also helps you is still a good thing, not bad.
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In reply to: Yeah I'm saying that in the situation i would genuinely fucking care, but im still a rapist. I never said you were a rapist, get your facts straight before you start accusing me of posting stuff i havn't!
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well you could ask her to go on a date or somthin romanic she will stll like that and when the time is right ask her to marry you
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Don't hit on her, at least giver her a good month, when my dad died I didn't go to school for a week and pretty much shut down for a month. It hurts so bad.
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All I can say is be real careful, one of my friends got hurt, and someone swooped in to steal his GF, then he got uhhh, taught a lesson, about a week later...