wow, i havnt posted here in a LONG ass time! haha anyway...for those of u who dont know me, im A senior in highschool. ok well i just got this new girlfriend who's a freshmen. My friend told me about her a long time ago and i recently started to talk to her n stuff. My friend told me that girl really likes me so...i got to know her a lil bit and i liked her personality so...i asked her to prom....she said yes. I asked her out 3 days ago and i couldn't be happier. I havn't seen her all that much since then (detenton during lunch, have to work after school sometimes..) except today after school. My question is: What kind of things does it take to be a good boyfriend?! I usually know this answer, but now im drawing a blank! I mean, i really wanna impress this girl (she's said ive already impressed her) but i wanna be the best boyfriend i can for her! Any tips or ideas for impressing her more?Also, like a week ago we madeout in my friends car, it was great, shes SUCH a good kisser...but now when i see her at school, it "feels" like shes not that affectionate. I know it's kind of inaproprehate to make out at school (kind of disgusting to some degree too lol) but I kiss her real quick when the bell rings at break, then she just walks to her class. I just stand there and shake it off and walk to class. sometimes we don't even kiss... I'm a really affectionate guy and i like to show it by big hugs n stuff....i duno, maybe im just over reacting, i tend to do that due to my low selfasteem sometimesany feedback is greatly appreciated!
Being a Good Boyfriend...???
It sounds like she's not that big on public display of affection. I wouldn't worry about it too much.
As far as being a good boyfriend, you need to adjust to how often she hears from you. Like, some girls want to be called everyday and others don't. Flowers for no reason is good, but don't do it too often otherwise it starts to become not that special. And mainly, just try to adjust to what she likes.
Heh, me and you have alot in common. I am also a Senior in Highschool and I am going out with a freshmen. Look man, take it that shes a freshmen as an advantage. Your probably gonna be the most serious boyfriend she will have. Since your older and all. Shes gonan suspect that you will know what to do in certain situations since your older. Making out in public areas makes her seem kinda shy. But when you are alone with her. SHES ALL YOURS. Just make your girl happy and laugh. LoL she'll love it