EXtremely Nervous but I might have A PLAN

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Alright the girl I like is going away this thursday until monday. Should I ask for her # and say something like "I wanted to call you because I have feelings for you as more than a friend" before she goes so she can think about it when shes gone and get back to me? Im not really that kind of person but its driving me crazy does that sound good??

I'd wait till the May 24 weekend is over...

Why?

Havent got much to say... But You are young and experience coutns for alot at that age..
Id say go for it.. But You need to be confident about htings You do.
I mean, really, if at any rate She considers You as a possible bf , then it doesnt matter whether You ask Her before or after.
It doesnt have any influence on the outcome.
Also, honesty never hurts, so if She says that She is not interested in that way then it is good for You. Knowing, that is, and not being in doubt anymore. But You shouldnt think about that right now, dont let that cloud Your thoughts.
Also, dont do something stupid like ask Her things like that over MSN or other non-verbal means. Talk to Her.
Just remember that You dont have anything to lose. It helps to be confident, You dont want to be mumbling these words to Her. I know I did my sorts of that during that age so yeah, its not so good :smile:
Of course You might want to reconsider this "want to be more than a friend" thing. Ask for Her number, if She asks why You should tell Her something. Not make something up, honesty is the key, but just dont say something "too rushed". If She asks, You could tell Her that You might call Her at some point to know how She is doing. I really dont know Her that much, You do (know Her more, that is).
Its not a good idea to ask for a number saying that "hey could You give me Your number cause I want to be more than just a friend", dont do that. Thats plain bad :P
But yes, ask for Her number. Doubt is bad and Her response is good for You no matter what She says.
EDIT: Oh, btw, Your thread name... Extremely nervous... If this is the case during the time You'd be asking Her, then its a li'l bit tricky. During those first "moves" its bad not to be confident.

Oh no i wasnt gonna ask her for her number and if she asks why say i wanted to be more than friends. If i got her number, which I probaly would, i would just say something like that too her. Im not really that confident but at this point it might be better to risk getting turned down so I could atleast move on.I wasn't really concerned with not getting a number, if i dont get one obviously the buck stops there. But i was more concered with what to do after I got it and when to say what and how to go about it. Thanks for the input though.

Paul, I think you should stop analysing things to death before you do them, and just go and do it.

Some people need the opposite advice, to think before you act, but in your case I think there's too much thinking and not enough action.

Yea your good, not to get off topic but when im playing basketball my coach/family say i think 2 much. I wont throw a risky pass though, but then again I sometimes miss the chance to make a good open one. Kind paralles my dating career. lol

alright call me a chicken but she said she was gonna call people up so i was like hey if u wanna call me gave her my number and she said ok. then after i said i wasnt sure if i was gonna talk 2 her after school and gave her my cell. she hinted too it so i was just like whatever if we talk we talk i dont care about how it takes place or whatever. (alright im a big wimp kill me)

Uhhh... please tell me you didnt' just do this online?

In reply to: Uhhh... please tell me you didnt' just do this online? ditto

i HATE IT when guys dont talk to me, the instant that they IM me or send me a note all attraction is lost. get some confidence and guts..

Hey man,I recently asked out a girl I liked for a few months. I kept on thinking of reasons not to do it and she got asked out by another guy. Don't wait. The girl I liked was basically waiting for me to ask her out. Just tell her you like her and ask her if she'd like to get together and do something.I think it's worse to know THEY DID LIKE YOU but you never asked, than they didn't like you at all.