Why do most guys want to "hit it and quit it" even if they do like the girls and even if they know that it makes the girl really upset. Do they feel that making a girl upset or depressed gives them more power? Guys please help me out here!!!!
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I don't get it!!!!
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im guessing you mean, have sex and then ditch/dump? Maybe that just arent feelin' it, maybe it was just to get in your pants, and i dont really think they care if the girl is gonna be upset, cause well lets face it, its unavoidable. No matter what, the girl will get upset by that. Anyone that gets dumped is upset
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yeah i wouldnt ever do anything like that, but i see it happen all the time, and the guys still get laid and i dont, even when i try and do everything i should do it never happens, sad world.
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Guys, especially young guys just wanna get laid, they don't have to have an emotional attachment to whoever they are in bed with, whereas women tend to. Some guys act like its their job in life to fuck as many women as possible, and they are only nice to get what they want. It is a power thing too, on a certain level I reckon.Do I take it from your post that this has happened to you?
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I agree with Angel except for........
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they don't have to have an emotional attachment to whoever they are in bed with, whereas women tend to
I have foun dthat to be opposite lately. In fact i have dumped girls because all they wanna do is have sex right away. Im not like that at all, i actually want to have an emotional attachment with someone. So in response to the original post......Its a stereotypical thing. So why do i keep finding GIRLS that want to "hit it and quit it"?
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Hey hon, sorry to hear that. Women, girls whatever you wanna call em have certainly changed since i was younger then.......now i feel even older than i did yesterday and it was my birthday LOLI am really glad there are still guys like you out there hon, that don't seem to be just out for what you can get. I think it is more common for a guy to fuck someone then dump them, but maybe the girls are catching up and thats a bit sad!
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Yea it has happened to me and I usually fall in love with the guy and that makes me real upset that they don't feel the same way!!!!
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I think the other way aroubd is worse. wen a guy loves a girl and she doesn't love him! I have experience that before and it was the one of the worst feelings ever. Luckly I am in a perfect, loving relationship now!
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problem is girls tend to go for the assholes because they like to be treated like shit.
OMG that is so fuckin true. I cant believe it either i mean i dont even get it. Whatever, lets face it.....there are alot of crappy people out there....but there are also good people. The hard part is getting through all that crap to find the good
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Some guys do it after they've been screwed over in a serious relationship. They bail before they have to deal with it again. Some are just assholes. The later is more common.
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But- you will notice that the guys that are real nice to the girls usually have lots of chick friends because they are comfortable around them, and sometimes, luck smiles upon them and they actually get MORE than the assholes... I try to treat girls respectfully, like the gentlemen of the olden days. Usually it works, but sometimes, the girls go for the "bad boy" (aka the one who will treat them like SH!T for sure) anyways
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In reply to: I try to treat girls respectfully, like the gentlemen of the olden days. Usually it works, but sometimes, the girls go for the "bad boy" (aka the one who will treat them like SH!T for sure) anyways True dat...im the same way