Need advice

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hi im 15 and have jst started doing the streching... i have a tight "tip" of the foreskin and was jst wondering how long it takes for this hole to open up enuff to be able to pull back when erect?
im gnna be hooking up with a gurl soon and relly want it so my foreskin can retract while erect so stop any embarssment with her... (and to feel something :wink:
i mean ive done it for two days maybe im expecting everything to happen really quickly?
im doing all of the streching every moment i can so its gtta be about 20-30 mins a day im doing everything.
also when flaccid will i be able to easily pull the foreskin below the glands?
thnx for any help, billy

As I understand it, it takes months rather than days. When you have done it enough you should be able to pull the foreskin back both flaccid and erect.

i gess im relly eager... bt is there any way to speed this stretching and opening the hole process?

Kidbilly ... Helping you will be easier when we have a better idea of the problem. Please measure and give us the erect diameter of your foreskin opening. Measure, too, the circumference and/or the diameter of your glans, so we can compare the two. Then describe the exercises that you have been doing. Explain, also, why you believe that you will be embarrassed should your girlfriend discover that your foreskin isn't quite retractable. Do you believe that she might be embarrassed should you discover that her hymen is intact?Korydon

ok well when erect the diameter of opening is 5mmthe glands diaeter is about 4cmdo them figures sound correct?exercises ive been doing are:1) pinching both sides of the foreskin and pullin in oppposite ways, then puting a finger inside2) pulling back as far as possible and holding thereive been doing these every minute of day i can

Hi, "Billy": According to your measurements, normal retraction may take a bit longer to achieve than you originally supposed, as Ineligible suggests. But that's OK. You are on your way, and that's what is important.

The exercises that you are doing are good. I'm presuming that when you pinch both sides of your foreskin and pull in opposite directions that you are, at the same time, pulling forward, away from your body. It's helpful to slightly increase the length of the foreskin, too. When you progress to being able to get two fingers inside the "stretching" will increase expoentially. Remember that you are not actually stretching skin tissue, you are encouraging new skin cells to grow, and that takes time.

Be careful, though, about pulling back. You don't want to have your foreskin slip prematurely behind the glans and get stuck. It's always safer to pull forward. It's not that the dimensions of your glans are "correct" or not, its that its size requires the foreskin to be sufficiently supple to negotiate its way from the sulcus over the larger corona.

You should be reminded that millions of men worldwide have satisfying sex lives without being retractable. Having a dynamically useable foreskin is just better. So don't worry about your girlfriend. If she loves you, she'll take you as you are. Indeed, she may help you in your stretching exercises. How about that!

Korydon

thnx man... so how long approx would u say for me to be "normal" and fully retractable when erect and flaccid?

im thinking of going to my doctors and asking for the Betamethasone 0.05%

would this help?

"Billy" ... the time required for you to become fully retractable depends largely upon you and how faithful you are with your exercises. It could take a few weeks, it could take months. Make your exercise regimen a part of your daily life, like brushing your teeth. If you try to do too much, too soon, you might become frustrated. Just take it a day at a time. As for betamethasone, if you do obtain a prescription, remember only to use a minute quantity, and then only on the area which you are attempting to "stretch". It's a very potent substance (which is why you need a prescription) and it works by thinning the skin. Your fingers, alone, are entirely sufficient as aids in the process, but if betamethasone encourages you to exercise, go for it.Good luck!Korydon

im really pleased, when flaccid i can now pull down and reveal say a third of the glands, this has taken jst 4 days hope this progress carries on

also ive jst looked at i used 2 have spots on the inner foreskin, but now they have disapeared and others have reduced in size... this must mean more skin cells have grown?

Spots?

i cnt explain it but reading thru these forums ive discovered its jst a natural variation

Congratulations, Billy, with your rapid progress. Keep UP the good "work"!Rood

thnx for all ur help, when erect i can also now pull back and expose a little bit of the head... im so pleased im hoping in a months time ill be "normal" when flaccid and cleaning i find that my head is REALLY sensitive... couple of questions about that 1) will this feeling go away?2) is there anything i can do to stop it being so sensitive?

Being super sensitive is common when you first start exposing the head. Yes, it'll go away...the more you expose it to direct touch and stimulation, the less sensitive it'll be. Just keep working with it!

The first time that my foreskin came back so the whole of the head of my penis was outside of the foreskin came as a real shock to me, it was just after the first time I had sex. Before I didn't realise that it could happen unless you were circumsized and my girlfriend was as shocked as I was. It never really hurt as far as I could tell be being it my first time and all I was pretty high on adrenaline.What I'm trying to say is that if you're worried what she might think, don't be. She won't think anything as long as you've cleaned yourself enough and remember, the more sexually active you are, the more you're gonna need to clean there, this includes masterbation. This is because there is still substance in your urethra (the tube in your penis) after masterbation which thins downs after a minute or so but doesn't come out unless you squeeze it out. This substance slowly works it's way out and stays underneath your foreskin and depending if you pee or not tends to work it's way underneath your head. Don't worry about this though, it's easy enough to get off and don't worry if it looks yellowy by the time you've got it out, it just means your urine is a healthy yellow colour.The best advice I can give for your situation though, is just don't worry, your penis will sort itself out if it needs to and if it doesn't, why bother? The only thing you need it out for is extra pleasure which you won't notice at all if it's your first time.

The "substance" you are decscribing is just semem that hasn't been expelled. Semen looses it's jelly like texture and becomes runny after a while. That is what you are seeing.

hey agen guys.. another questioni can now pull my foreskin back behind the head with flaccid... jst wondering wen i let o will it get stuck there as it not loose enuff 2 go back up? if this happens what shall i do?thnx agen guys

If it gets stuck then you squeeze the head hard to squish it down, then quickly slip it back over. If it is too tight when flaccid, then you should be extra careful becasue if you get an erection with it retracted and it is tight, then the erection will make it much much worse and can become a medical emergency if you can't get it back over. The same method applies with an erection if it is stuck.