I need help!

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Okay listen to this. I'm in love with this boy and I know he likes me too. Well, he goes down the shore each summer right, and it is May 21st. Summers almost here. He always asks me for head and all, but I never gave it to him. So tomorrow (Sunday) he wants me to give him head. But I don't know if I should or not. He said he would also finger me. The thing that's stopping me is that I don't know if he's just using me? If I do give him head I'm just going to fall in love with him even more. And when he leaves, it's going to be heartbreaking. So I'm asking you people. Should I give him head and he will finger me on Sunday? Please, please help me. Thank You! -- Tiffany

to me it sounds like he just wants it, i mean if you have some problems with it and dont think you should IE using you i wouldnt... its all about comfort

Believe me when I say I don't know much about relationships, but if he is asking for head and stuff from you before he leaves for the summer, it sounds to ME like he is kinda using you. I'd say talk to him and see if what this things between you guys is real love or if he is just manipulkating you. Idk, good luck with your decision.

if you really like this guy for who he is then i'd talk to him and ask him how you feel before you do anything together.If he doesn't feel the same way. then its up to you whether you want to give him head which you know will have no strings attatched to it

If you want to do it- baring in mind that he COULD be using you...........but don't EVER feel under pressure from anyone to do stuff like that, no matter what he says.

I agree with what everyone has been saying. Sounds like he's using u for alittle action before he leaves. Dont feel pressured to do it. I fhes tryin to pressure you its a good sign hes using you.....and hes a prick

Screw that, if you are even considering what to do. Don't do anything until you KNOW! Just the fact that you are asking this question is reason enough to show you are not ready. If you are not ready and you do it it will not be any fun; furthermore, you could have regrets about doing it if he is using you. Regardless the guy is leaving soon and you are just setting yourself up. You have to be with a guy who cares enough about you that you feel comforatble doing what you guys feel like doing. To say that you should suck him off is stupid and rude tell him to fuck off.

You shouldnt do anything your not sure you wanna do. Talk it over with him. If he really loves you he'll respect you.

I would talk to him about this. From what you have typed up, it does sound like he could just be using you. Seems also that you are uncomfortable about the whole thing, if you are. DO NOT DO IT. You'll regret it, and feel slutty about yourself. Trust me I know -_-