Most of the time when me and my boyfriend are together, we play with each other, A LOT. But since he's started fingering me, and then moving to the Clit and rubbing it a lot so i can have an orgasm, it is sore after we stop for a few minutes. I don't know if maybe it is just because it goes from being wet to dry, or if this is just not normal. what do you think?
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Sore after rubbing
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It's normal...it's a sensitive area.
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I realize it's a sensitive area, but it has like a burning sensation after he rubs it again once we've stopped. I don't know if that's normal or not.
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Perhaps he's too rough?
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Is it sore after you stop for a few minutes post-orgasm? A lot of men and women hate being so much as touched down there after an orgasm, that's nothing to be concerned about. Try kissing, cuddling, rubbing other erogenous zones, or focusing on him for 15 minutes before you go at it again if that's your problem.Otherwise if it's just sore from too much rough handling, I have the same problem. When he's messing with me I'll get too excited and just keep urging him on, or he'll repeat the same motions for too long and I won't even notice it until afterwards I'm all sore. Heck, I've bruised the general area from getting a little too enthusiastic just grinding on his leg. It gets a little dangerous when you like it rough! Try using a generous serving of lube whenever you're going to be "playing", even if you don't think you'll need it.