Pardon my language folks but that's exactly what he is.A lot of people said I was overreacting, but I KNEW. We've been seeing each other for three months. A few days ago, got tired of the whole deal and called it off. And then I find out TONIGHT that for the last FOUR WEEKS he's bee seeing his EX behind my back and LYING to me about it. It's not that I'm upset he was cheating and being a dick (of course that's upsetting). But mostly I'm upset because he LIED. You know at least he had a shot of staying friends with me...but now? Oh no cowboy! I ain't got anything else to say to Mr. Slimeball.And maybe it's not that I'm really upset with him as much as it is I'm upset with myself. Because in my gut, I knew what was going on. I knew. I knew something wasn't right and something was going on..but instead of listening to that instinct and going with it...I trusted that everyone else was right and I really was just overreacting. And I even started to believe it. But that feeling just wouldn't go away so I broke it off...got rid of his number, pictures, whatever..got rid of it all.Why, oh why didn't I listen to myself? It makes me sick to even think about what he was doing behind my back. I am done with the male species for the time being. I want no part of them. To you guys: I know you're not all like this...but you know? The rest of you are going to suffer because of someone else's mistakes. Because I'm tired of my male counterparts. Grrrrr....stomps out of room.
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Cheating Bastard
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**fuck! Im soooooo sorry hon........I will never understand why people cheat. You didn't deserve that, I hope your ok hon. *big hugs* **
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Wow...that guy really is a jerk. I owe you an apology for encouraging you to stick with it...I guess my view from far away is not nearly as good as your up-close view. I'm sorry.
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I'm better off. 'Nuff said. :grin:
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I'm so sorry to hear this cenfath. Your a great girl and it's better that you found out now. big hugs
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heres a cookie
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You know Unforgetto? I probably would've had some nice little witty come back for you a while back. But while you'll be stuck in your puberty days for the rest of your life trying to learn how to deal with your excess testosterone, I'm moving on. At some point in time I hope to re-build the friendship I actually had with Adam. Because he's a good friend. And he probably is a nice guy but - not for me and not to me. Grow up and back off.
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In reply to:You know Unforgetto? I probably would've had some nice little witty come back for you a while back. But while you'll be stuck in your puberty days for the rest of your life trying to learn how to deal with your excess testosterone, I'm moving on. At some point in time I hope to re-build the friendship I actually had with Adam. Because he's a good friend. And he probably is a nice guy but - not for me and not to me. Grow up and back off. Oooo! Good Call!I'm sorry to hear that. I've had my heart broken too.My first love, Bronte...we went out for months, we both loved each other...She broke it off... but I found out for a few MONTHS she had been cheating on me for some runt she broke up with a few days later. I hated her for it...She got better and was nice to me. We were good friends and she asked me out again. I said yes jst to see where she was going with it. Something didnt feel right, and I broke it off. My friend told me she was planning to stand me up at the school dance for him (even thoguh he didnt even agree to it )Anyway, thats very bad what happened and im soory to hear it. I hope you feel better... people like that get me so mad. I hpe you can work it out between you.
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Look, not all guys cheat. I really do feel for you since I just went through a similar thing except a girl did it to me. Fed me all this shit about her ex was cheating on her and then I catch her taking another guy up to her room late one night.The world is full of good and bad people. The bad ones will be tossed aside and the good, you'll hang onto.Don't punish me for some other guy's mistake. I'm worth more than that.
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Well let me clear the air now for those of you who don't know. I did some of my own footwork. Investingating some places he hangs around at and asking some of the people he hangs around with and also enlisting the help of a couple of friends. I've drawn my own conclusions and although I'd really love to box with the girl at work, I'm thankful she didn't do any permanent damage and more importantly I didn't do any permanent damage. We're currently on speaking terms and we're just friends for now. And that makes me happy.
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Enough about this other guy. You can always visit me! Preferably while I'm single.
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Not yet. She's asking other people at work why I'm not talking to her. I went to Denny's with some friends the other night and we avoided telling her that we were going. She still doesn't know. If she'd been there...I probably would've socked her. And you know, it's not really worth it. She didn't do any real permanent damage as far as I'm concerned especially if we're still talking to each other. Whew! lol Anyhow, all well that ends well, right?Websex ~ You know you could always come here!