I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and I think i'm ready to have sex. We have both never had sex before and we've both decided that we want to be eachother's first. I know mentally, i'm ready but I'm just scared of all the possible consequences of having sex. Getting pregant..or possibly getting an STD. Might I add, my parents are extremely strict and old fashioned. if they found out that i had sex they would kick me out of my house. I'm also scared that I wont be able to handle the pain. Emotionally, i am ready to have sex. And I know that I want my boyfriend to be my first. I know i can trust him and I do. I guess i just need a little advice about my first time having sex..
LOSING MY VIRGINITY! help..
I suggest getting on the pill and using a condom.
Birth control might be difficult to get if ur parents can't know. If you can find an adult who is trustworthy, have them take you to the doctors to get free birth control samples. And for condoms, have him buy them. Is there a safe place that you can have sex too? where your parents won't find out?First time i had sex my mom was sleeping in the next room, so it was really risky. She found out that i had sex, but she didn't know it was in our own house. But she was realli concerned because I wasn't on birth control.