I am a 15 year old male and I'm bi. And there's this guy that I have recently become good friends with that I'm pretty sure that I like. He doesn't know that I'm bi and I'd like to know if he is straight or bi or bicurious. So do I just ask him or not because I really would like to know, so that I could ask him out or something. Please help, because we have a really good friendship and I don't want to ruin it. I just don't know what to do.
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What to do?
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Just keep your mouth shut. If you don't need the friendship and you really want to know, then you can tell him. It might turn out OK, it might not. However, if he is OK with your difference and will still be your friend, never ever make a move on him, talk about it, or anything that has to do with or is in anyway related to gay, bisexual, or bicurious.
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ok so you like a guy friend of yours. If i were you i would talk to him about you being bi. Chances are if he isnt bicurious then he might get freaked out if you tell him you like him. At first i would just see how he reacts to you telling him you are bi. He still may freak out so give it time. It may be hard for him to get used to. But like the other person said, Id Keep Your Mouth Shut About Liking Him. If he is interested you will probably be able to tell after his reactions to you telling him you are bi.
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just make an easy move. He prolly wont be able to admit if he is or not. FLirt with him see how he reacts because if he is he's just as scared as you are.