Well, I've noticed over the past few months that I'm attracted to my g/f's sister. My g/f and I are 18 and her sister is 16. She's really attractive (just like her big sister) and rather, well, developed for her age. Whenever I am at their house and her sister is around I cant help but check her out and look at her. Sometimes she'll have a low cut top or tank top and her chest will show a bit and I really have to stop myself from looking. I just wonder if this will be a problem or if I will ever just get used to being around her. I feel like I shouldnt be checking out her sister and I dunno if its normal or not. Anyone else have this problem and how did you deal with it?
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Girlfriend's Sister
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Having a gf at first holds all your attention, but after a while normality comes back and you start feeling attracted to other girls. It's normal. You just have to accept the attraction but not do anything about it.
It's certainly more awkward and uncomfortable when it's your gf's sister, though. Eyes are hard to control, and she'll be in a position to notice.
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In reply to:I feel like I shouldnt be checking out her sister and I dunno if its normal or not.[/quoteyeh, u shouldnt..but normally guys' eyes wander, n they look for new beauts. jus don't do anything.. treat her like every other girl thats not ur girlfriend, only eye candy.i jus hope she doesnt share the same attraction for you
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just try and get it out of your mind. it you can't stop thinking about it, just think of your gf's sister while your having sex (or whatever) with your girlfriend. then you can just "imagine" what it would be like doing her sister without actually doing it. and then you won't have to try and do it with her sister, because you already "can".when i was with a past gf, i used to jerk off while thinking of her sis and sometimes when i was having sex with my past gf, i used to imagine that it was her sister that i was having sex with. let's just say it added a lot more "naughty" feelings to how i was feeling :P
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I think its normal for a male to notice an attractive girl regardless who it is. However, out of respect for your gf, I would suggest that you control yourself. If you find yourself overly attracted to her sister then it is time to cut the relationship with your gf.
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Stop spending time at her house when her sis is there.
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When I was with my last g/f, I slept with her and her sister. Yeah, it's weird but we didn't last long as a couple anyway. I was only 19 at the time though.
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Was her sister the same age as you guys? If I found out my bf was sleeping with any of my sisters, I'd kill both him and my sisters. Hair would be pulled everyday. Actually that happened once.
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No she was a bit younger. That whole thing was fucked up anyway.
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Oh boy. Did she seduce into sleeping with her or were you like hey baby let's go.
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Not really. We just kissed and fooled around. I only fucked my ex g/f though, not her sister. I should have clarified.Sometimes in life, ya gotta learn and I learned a lot from that relationship. I have not dated anyone since.
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I take it the relationship didn't end too well then.
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No it didn't. My ex was already engaged to some other guy and when he was working, I was fucking her.I learned though.
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Omg are you serious. What... this girl... she has issues. Did she get a beat down (not necessarily by you) but she had to have gotten what she deserved.
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It was years ago. I became attracted to her and wanted her badly. She thought I only cared about the way she looked. Oh well. She said shit about her fiancee and we got it on when he was working. Yes, she was very depressed. She took anti-depressants. Hell, she even slept with one of my ex-g/fs cuz she was bi-curious.I don't know why I'm talking about this shit. I do however hope that no one gets caught up in a situation like this. If there's anything I can do, it's influence in a good way.
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Who me?Not really. As I said, I regret a lot of things.
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In reply to: I only fucked my ex g/f though, not her sister. so why say you slept with both. if only with ur ex, how does the sister come into it?