so i have this close friend that about 4 months back said she had feelings for me and i kind of said i liked her too. i think i would have asked her out right there but i thought asking her out over the phone would be kind of weak. the next day i skipped school to go skiing with my dad(cause it was getting towards the end of february and we would most likely not have another chance to go), and when i got to school the day after that i walked up to her to ask her out and she says before i had a chance to say anything she tells me she started going out with this guy.now they are broke up and i was thinking about asking her out again. the problem is after her and this guy(who treated her like shit) were going out for like 2 months she started messin around with some other guy. while she was messing with this other guy a couple of people told me she was spreading this stupid ass lie about me around school. it was somethin like, she caught me beatin off outside her window. she told me repeatedly she didn't say that to anyone and i don't really know considering only a handful of people came to me and told me she was saying that.after i confronted her on this story thing she said she was mad at me for something i said but wouldn't tell me what it was that i "said". After all this crap i still have these feelings for her i guess cause she is smart, funny, and stunningly beautiful. Do yall think she is worth the trouble??or should i just tell her to take a hike
Smack her down! You don't need someone like that to be weary of. There are plenty of these girls about. They're called bitches and they annoy the hell out of me.So tell her to shove it, and then make a rumour up about her! (by the way you probably shouldn't do that last part - you'll get a load of chat about "sinking down to her level" or some rubbish like that)
You've gotta stand back and look at this dispassionatly,
She said she had feelings for you, yet 2 days later she started to see another guy, doesn't hang about does she?
She also was basically 2-timing this guy who she started to see 2 days after saying she had feelings for you.
She also started nasty rumours about you, if only one person knew about it you could give her the benefit of the doubt, but several?
When you confronted her about the rumours she avoided the issue by being mad at you for something which you haven't done and she hasn't even said what it is!!
To me thats 4 reasons straight off why you should stay well away from her.
Close friend? Huh, if you have friends like that, what are your enemies like?
Sorry to be so negative, but to me, totally unbiased, she is one person who if I was in your postion would be to "take a hike" as you put it
The only thing left if you still want to persue it is mention these facts and ask what she has to say about it.