a girl that i've talked to before is really cool but she doesnt look so hot. she wants to do stuff with me but i'm not sure we should go "the next step" meaning a blow job or sexual play. what do you guys think? she can get annoying sometimes too, but she's really smart. thx
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What to do with this girl?
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If you don't want to, don't do anything.
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should i make a decision based on hormones only?
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No.
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I have had the problem alot, when im horny ill talk to this girl(when i didnt have a gf) and sweet talk her basically so i could get some and then when i wasnt horny i wouldnt really wanna talk to her and shit.Idk why i did basically because i thought with my penis not my heart which is very dumb
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i'd say no, you dont find her attractive so dont get into that trap
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wait so you can only be in love or have sex with a girl if shes attractive. oh this world has some major issues
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That's the way it works. But you have to remember, the person I think is attractive may be unattractive to you. Usually people who have a heart are attracted to the person they wish to share intimate feelings for, or else it's using the person for sexual acts, and that may establish them as a sexual object in the users mind. That's just wrong.
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In reply to:wait so you can only be in love or have sex with a girl if shes attractive. oh this world has some major issues completely wrong there. She is cool, and I like to be around her, but she's not very attractive. Meaning I like her for her personality, not her looks. It'd just be hard to fantasize.
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Well, can you live with it if she became your girlfriend?If no, don't do it.If yes, go ahead. (I'm not talking about a 3 days relationship)Not much need to be said on this discussion. -Taison! outps. . why is it that alot 15 year old kids are getting so many girls to themselves and it's always they have this horny girl(s) they can excert their erotic fantasies on? Strange, I'm 20 and I don't see a lot of "easy to get girls".
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well, first off, I'm not 15. Second, there are a lot of horny girls out there if you look. You'd be very suprised.
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I must apologise if you thought I was referring to you in my final statement. Anyway, good luck and I hope I was of help in answering your questions.
-Taison! out
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give her teh buttsecks
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well, i found out yesterday that she went out of town for a week. before she gets back I'll be gone for 3 weeks. So I'll be wanting to hear more advice from you guys by the time i return ( i leave in a week) but it's all cool. I'm not sure exactly what I'm going to do with / to her (hehe). Anyways, I'll think about it. And no, I probably wouldn't have her as a girlfriend because I'd only be able to be good friends with her. I feel it'd be too awkward to hold her hand and be her bf. Besides, i'm not to sure what her friends / my friends would think. Anyways, I'll definitely do a lot of thinking about it.
