yo im 14 and a blk male me and my n my gf decided to have sex yes shes skinny but when she was 8 she had sex wit a 16 yer old and she sed she can take a 9in. im 6in. she says it doesnt matter cuz we luv each other but i dunno what yall think. thx.
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Im scared
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is it b/c u seen this so many times? plz answer
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Sex at 8? That's great. If she can handle a 9" then she cna handle a 6" don't worry about it.
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I wasn't aware eight year olds can measure
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well...
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you're 14 and in love?
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Yes, i definately think you can do better than a girl who had sex at 8... No offense but i think she has issues. Besides, i would save your virginity for someone you are truly in love with... like a wife... But, it's your virginity, do what you want:)
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If she had sex at eight, then that means that she was almost certainly taken advantage of. No eight-year-old has the capacity to decide whether or not she is mature enough for sex. This issue is what you should be concerned about... encourage her to see her school counselor and talk things over, figure out why she was so sexualized at such a young age. In the meantime, it would be cruel to use her to please yourself, knowing how vulnerable she is because of her past trauma.Don't worry about penis size, incidentally. It's called the birth canal for a reason: it can stretch wide enough to get a canoe through, if necessary. There might be discomfort, but it is unlikely that you will actually hurt her if you just take your time.
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puhleaseee, strate up i think ur lyin. nuffin else to say, i think ur telling sum strae up BS. :angry:
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i knew a girl whos sister had sex with a boy her age when she was like 5. she was still wetting the bed at that age! neither of them admitted to knowing what they were doing which one would expect but it was creepy to think... and who the hell would even go out with an 8 yeah old when theyre 16!? jeez! they both have issues if you ask me. most 8 year olds dont even know what sex is!
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In reply to:
you're 14 and in love?
Age has nothign to do with it, K? People think "ooh, they're so young, they think they're in love." and it gets me pretty tense. Just cause I'm young, this doesn't mean I don't feel what people a few years older feel. It's EXTREMELY ignorant to say we don't know love, so don't.
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Romeo and Juliet were pretty young.
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Actually, I think age would have a lot to do with love. Your mindset at 14 greatly varies at 16 and even more at 18+. It all deals with maturity really. But, hey thats just me.Now then, at age 8, having sex sounds like a bunch of crap. An 8 year old wouldnt even know what you were talking about. So this story sounds riddiculous. And love and sex are two very different things aswell. If you feel your ready, then best of luck I guess, if your not, tell her no. Not that simple maybe, considering reading it and saying it are two different things.
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Firstly, on the in love at 14. I was in love at 14 with a guy, We didn't have sex and broke up eventually because we moved to different colleges. However, we never fell out of love, and we are back together now, engaged, and to be married in the next two years. Love at 14 is possible. However, sex at 14, though while so so tempting, really isn't that worth it. Yes, it can be really great. I'm not going to lie, sex at 14 and sex at 18 is the same, it can be amazing, or rubbish, depending on who your with. I believe you have to have a great connection with a person if youre going to have sex with them. Sex is very intimate, no matter how you do it, and therefore you should think long and hard about who ayou want your first experience to be with. Don't feel pressured becuase your gf says she has had sex already, doesn't mean you should have, or should want to. At 14, I didn't really want sex, I wanted a boyfriends, someone to kiss and hug and be close to, but not sex, which is why I believe the minimum age of consent should remain at 16.