I notice when i masturbate to girls in my head, i never masturbate to my girlfriend, i can never figure it out. Its always been like that and idk because it doesnt make any since. You woudld think it would turn me on more but it doesnt. DO you guys know whats going on here?
Why is this
Those fantasies we create! You know man I think it has nothing really to do with her or not wanting to think of her that way...my hunch (and this is true for many of u) is that we like some variety and thinking of others is a safe way to do that. Thats one of the reasons porn is so much part of masturbation for some folks.