Question about dating/sex

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How long does it take you to have sex with someone your dating?

I let the girl choose the pace. I don't mind taking it fast and I don't mind taking it slow. And for some, I don't mind taking it very slow.

Its always been within a month for me.

This is one of those questions which can't be answered in an exact space of time. . . To be more exact it depends entirely on either a.You b. Your Date.
If you are serious with him/her, go out with him/her for a while first and see if he/she's the one. If not, just try romantic and all. For me, neither of them works.
I'm not exactly a sex addict, so I don't care much for sexual relationships, but I do have a relationship. So, just go out with him/her and one day, you'll find yourself ontop of him/her.
Best Luck

• Taison! out

There was a lot of him/her action going on there! Although with sex, there usually is.

As the girl, most likely if you want to have sex with your guy then you can. It is not the most common thing in the world for a guy to say no. The only problem is that doing it too early in a relationship can give off the wrong impression. It may imply that you have very strong feelings for that may not actually exist, and there is also the possibility that he may think you're a slut. But a nice one I'm sure.

But for reference, I had sex with my last gf after 2 weeks. Luckily we both discussed it a lot (from day 1 actually) and when we did it, we were ready. That sounds cheesy and all, but I'm not talking about spiritual enlightenment or anything, both of us were prepared for the consequences, we wanted to do it and we wanted to do t with each other. All good.

Bobalicious, excuse me for the him/her action I did, the poster wasn't clear if he or her was a man or female. See? jeesh, plz, next time anyone post just tell if they are dating a guy or a girl. Easier to explain and give advice that way.. LOL! -Taison! out

As a general rule, the easier it is to get someone, the easier it will be to lose them.

As long as he/she wants it to. There is no definite answer.