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Alrighty, this has been bothering me long enough... I guess you could say I'm kind of picky when it comes to relationships. Most of the time I dont take them that seriously, because I know that , eventually, we'll break up. Then theres this girl. Ive been friends with her for about 2 years. Ive liked her, alot. Like, this is actually kinda serious. I think she liked(s) me.She's just kinda grown on me. okay...really , really grown on me. Problem is, i never talk to her anymore. Shes 3 years older, and well, besides a confidence thing on my part, I have a few problems. I think she may be the first one of my...."girls" (didnt know what to say) who i actually love. Im picky when I say the L word. Shes just wow to me So, my problem is this. I barely talk to her/see her now that shes graduated. I really like her, i dont know if she feels the same. This is huge to me though. I CAN call her, its just, i hate talking on the phone, and, i dont know what to say. I care about her so much, its just, i dont know what to do! I fear rejection more than anything, and i wouldnt want anything to change between us. Its just, she means alot to me, and i dont know what to do...thanks for any advice/help and listening to my spiel

Well, you say you don't want anything to change between you, but you never talk anymore. Surely any change would be for the best.

Easy enough. Call her and ask if she's free someday, so you 2 can go out somewhere. Then you can talk to her when going out about you still wanna be friend(lie) with her even now that she has graduated. From that point you could ask for her msn,ICQ, or whatever online apparatus you are using and talk to her daily that way, if she's online a lot that is. .It takes guts, and I believe you have those, cuz you're gothic, right? Just take up the phone and call. . If you're rejected then it doesn't matter, there's a lot of fish in the sea (excuse me if you are offended by this idiom). Best of luck-Taison! out

well, we do talk. its just, i dunno, shes the big deal to me so i guess im nervous

heh thanksI already have her aim, but it has a virus, so she cant get on. Its just, id call her, i just dont know what i would say ps...im not gothic lol. i made this account like 3 years ago when i was still "exploring who i am". now i hate my name on here lol

alright...i called her...and DAMNIT..no one picked up XD

If you didn't leave a message, then that one didn't count, you have to do it all again grin

take chances and don't be afraid to ask. ALso, hang out with her more often

it's not worth it. in the end you will be torn apart by not only her, but also by the friends who you thought were yours, only to find that they stab you in the back because they feel that a 10 year friendship is worthless.

okay...what the hell was that all about

very very bitter right now....relationships are shit imo

yea i agree, but some of them are actually worth it

you say that now, or near the begining of the relationship and everyone will agree on that, but name me one relationship that doesn't end in shit. it's impossible, nor does it actually exist

I 've had relationships that ended horribly, but you kind of have to give in just in case it might be a good one. you are right there, every relationship ends in shit, but some are good while they last

one relationship that doesn't end in shitMy parents. And lots of other old folks who've been happily married for many, many years.

No, all relationships end badly. Like when my grandma left my grandad at age 75! Selfish bitch had to go off and die...