I'm new to the boards and alittle embarrassed to talk about this but here we go and try to be as blunt as I can. Well, when it comes to oral sex (Receiving) sometimes the feeling gets so intense that I'll actually lose my erection or if nothing else I'll go softer. This happens most of the time if my partner and I are in a 69 position, I'm guessing it's because theres more attention being focused to the top side of the head of the penis..? My partner asked me about why I get softer at times when getting head and so I explained the sitaution and my partner looked at my funny as if he doens't understand what i am talking about. Anyone else have this happen and/or have a solution?I have tried the desensitizing stuff, but with that I cannot keep an erection at all because well I cannot feel anything hehe.Is there some type of exersize I can do to help keep the erection longer?Sorry if its an odd situation, but like any normal male I do like receiving oral sex and I want my partner to be satified while giving oral sex and not feel like he is doing something wrong when it's not him at all. Any input would be terrific.Thanks!
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A rather embarrassing situation for me..
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I would try kegels, which is exercising the pc muscle. google pc muscle exercises and you should be good to go
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Are you uncut? If so, yes there are some things you can do to make your penis less sensitive. We'll start there, if not then we'll keep working on this. PS....no need at all to be embarassed about asking questions here...you'll find we are all very open and ready to help folks with stuff like this!
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There are such things as 'Cockrings, which trap blood in the penis to maintain an erection. Although, there are certain things you have to know about these..Like..they can be dangerous if you leave them on too long. You should look into these.
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Lance.. no I'm cut. And I appreciate all the help. Oh.. as for the cockring idea. Not sure if thats something I need. I have no problems getting hard it just gets very sensative at times, and thats what makes it go soft. I know rather odd hehe. But than again I am pretty much open to all ideas and will try anything once.And I know you guys asked for alittle more info so gonna give you alittle more info on myself. I'm 24 years old (25 in a few weeks) about 6'1" and 160 lbs. I'm rather inshape, like to jog and all that. Hope that helps some and again thank you for all the help. I truely appreciate it.
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Could you be concentrating so hard on pleasing your partner that its taking something away from the pleasure your receiving. I give my other half a lot better blowjob when im concentrating on just him, when we do a 69 i just can't concentrate LOL
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That could be part of the issue I suppose because during sex I do worry more about my lover receiving pleasure than myself. Guess I am more of a giver than receiver hehe.But still not sure about the whole over sensative part though. I have "suffered" from that ever since I've been sexually active (17 years old). So not sure if theres anything I can even do about it or something I am just going to have to deal with..?I have decided to try Kegels, if nothing else just for the experience of it. A little apprehensive about the cockring mainly because how do I bring that up with my lover or do I just wear it and surprise him lol? But willing to give it a try if it something you guys think will help me out.
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I have given more thought of the cockring thing and willing to give it a try. Anyone have any advice on what type to purchase? I noticed there were different types. Also are they pretty much one size fits all or is there a way to tell what size I would need?