I recently recieved oral sex for the first time and in the process had my forskin pulled back past my penis head. It was very painful, is their something wrong with me? I have never before seen my foreskin go back so far / knew that it could even go back? Any ideas on how one might solve my problem / stop the pain
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Do i have a problem?
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Your just not used to it...All I could think of. Sensative skin was revealed. Kind of like why a cut hurts.
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Yeah, I agree. You need to work on retracting your foreskin all the way. It is supposed to retract all the way past the glans (head). If you've never retracted it before, direct stimulation to the glans can be so sensitive it's painful. The more you work at exposing the glans by retracting your foreskin, you will get more used to the sensations, and it will become less sensitive so that it feels good, not hurting. But, it will take some time. There is nothing wrong with you, other than you didn't know the foreskin was supposed to move back all the way to expose the head. But now you do! You should also retract your foreskin all the way like that in the shower each day to wash the glans and under the foreskin to keep smegma from building up, and to keep it from smelling bad under there - just part of good hygiene. Washing under there will also help you get used to the sensitivity of having your foreskin retracted.
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Well, the overly sensitive glans is normal at first, I went through that too. It's also possible that the foreskin itself was stretched beyond what it could do, so I'd check to see if there aren't any cuts or tears in it. If it was anything major I'm sure you would have told us, but just stretch it a bit by hand to see if it hurts, which I hope it does not.
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sorry to hear that... u should check out the Foreskin and Circumcision issues threads.... u will fund more information there... take care...