Well back when i first started masturbating i would come in like 30 seconds,that was about a year or so ago and now ive masturbated about once a day,now it takes atleast 10 minutes to come,but it feels good and everything.Do i need to stop or will it get to a point where the amount of time it takes me just stays the same,i dont want to be in my 20's and take a half hour to wack off
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Am i losing my touch?
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You mentioned in another post that the 30 seconds was a dry orgasm. Your body is a bit different now. Probably the greater experience is a factor also, but it's probably a good thing. In real sex you'd prefer not to be finished 30 seconds after starting. I haven't noticed it taking longer and longer with age, thank goodness.
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I cummed more and faster when i first started. I think when you first start jacking off, your dick isn't used to it and you cum really fast, but maybe over time, your dick gets used to it and it takes longer to cum
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It's probably an issue of sensitivity. When you first start masturbating, your body isn't used to it and probably reacts much more intensely, but as you do it, you develop more resistance. The same thing happened when I first started jerking off with my foreskin retracted. The first time I rubbed my glans directly the feeling was so strong it was actually painful, but after doing it on a semi-regular basis, it doesn't hurt anymore.
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That's exactly what I said, only mine was the dumber version.
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It's probably nothing to be concerned about, but if it bothers you there are things to try. Variety is key... use a toy if you never have before, use a different hand, use lube/no lube, etc. Your genitalia is like block of wax... rub it the same way forever and you just get a big smear and a greasy hand, but add some variety and you have a beautiful work of art and a greasy hand.
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It's a sensitivity issue vs. an issue of arousal. It's far more arousing the first time(s) because you have never done it before and you have a lot of pent up frustration. A picture of a pair of panties can get you off as you've never seen them before. You just need to explore your sexuality a little more, try some lubricants(water based). Find better porn. Masturbate less. Good luck!