I am a 40 y/o female, recently married. We have a GREAT sex life, but how do I tell him that I like being "taken" I want him to grab me, rip my clothes off without saying a word, and take me. how do i say this with out embarassing myself? or him thinking I am a freak?
Being tied up
**Just tell him one day, maybe when sex would be impossible, so he doesn't think your giving him an order to do it then and there LOL and hope he remembers :smile: I know just what you mean, i'm the same, and i definitely don't think we are the only ones, and in saying that your not a freak and i think any partner would apprecaite knowing what turns the other on, i know i do. **
having your partner ripping your clothes off unanounced is a little difficult if like me you love and respect your her so much...this,however is my girlfriends favourite fantasy & is approached as such..she comes home with dresses shes bought at charity shops or car boots & she loves me to rip them off her & ravage her to pieces,something we both enjoy immensly!!!ive also tied her to the bed(starfish position)and ripped off one of her old dresses which is also exhilerating for both of us!