Advice

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I need some advice on whether or not this girl actually likes me or is very playful. I met her on her first day at work. She smiled and everything was good, we were nice and friendly. Well from there it gets strange. I did to her as I normally did for all the new people, I helped her with dump (I work at Nordstroms and dump is all the clothes the people try on and do not want to wear, and i work in a womens department so it is bad), but anyway i told her jokes, and then just kind of let her go in my mind and just went on my own thing. Well whenever I see her now, she grows the largest smile and just talks to me non-stop, but not abut anything strange about her favorite foods, movies, and then we joke around with the clothing. And on Friday, this is what got me thinking, she wanted to know when i came back into work, and since i was off yesterday and today she said she will be back on Tuesday and I can say Hi to her then. I mean that is it, I mean she seems very flirty to me, but I am not sure b/c I have had terrible luck so far this summer, and I do not want to go through it all again. So what do you think is going on, I mean does she seem like she wants something more or is she being friendly.P.S. She is going to be a senior in college this year and none of her friends are here. So can you guys help. Thank you

It sounds like a 50/50 chance. I honestly think shes interested in you, ask her out or ask if she has a guy friend or something like that. I may be younger then you and all so dont take my advice if you dont want to.

i think she digs you

Some women are irresponsibly affectionate, to steal a term from Vonnegut. The only way to know, in the end, is to ask her out. Ask it in a light manner... "So you wanna go see a movie with me sometime?" She should be able to recognize that you want to go out with her, but the levity of the moment might enable her to turn you down easily. Since you're not being dour about it, you can accept her response and move on immediately, and still remain friends.

i guess i will go for it then. It is strange I am not like stunned by her looks (she is good looking though), but whatever she has done this is all I can think about. Well come tuesday (when i see her again), I will see what is up.

Good luck man, i hope you get her. Tell us the results

Hard to tell here. I think you should definitely find out how she thinks about you though.

definitely tell us the results!

sure I will let you guys know.

Hey hon, good luck

Well my manager say i am to take tomorrow off, so i will. and i will need it, this sale is going to be huge and i am going to work 6 days straight, but i put a note in her box with my number telling her to call me when she gets off if she wants to hang out.

Sounds awesome.

Good thinking! We will cross our fingers for you.

Well something good happened today, but it was kind of bad. She got my note and it says this on the text message to me:Hey jonathan its anna from nordstroms i got your note in my box. How are you? one problem i do not have text on my phone plan, so i cannot text her back. My kind of luck.

call her, explain that you don't have the ability to text, then continue the conversation.

with what number? I do not have her number yet.

she sent you a text, does it not have the phone number, or else how would you know who its from.

no number or nothing...I knew it was her b/c she is the only Anna I know.

No number? No text messages? Wow, American phone networks suck.

well i have good news, she called meand i talked to her for about 40 minutes or so. She said to call her later if I am bored, but I will call her if I am not bored or bored.