Well yesterday morning and afternoon was terrible. I had to deal with yelling customers, drunks, and I even had to deal with the occasional cursing. So to say I was having a crappy day would be putting it nicely. Well the guy I kind of have a crush on had come in fairly early in the afternoon to get something from the deli and he completely ignored me other than to give me his order (which is every unusual because we’re normally cutting up with one another) and kept talking to my friend who was ringing him out. Well a few minutes after he got his stuff paid for he looked at me and said “I’ll come back and agrivate you later since you were so buisy back in the deli.” I just nodded and said “see ya later.” Well a few hours later, probably around 7pm he comes back to get something to drink and instead of leaving quickly like he normally does, he stood there and chatted with Sara and I. Well we were goofing around and cutting up like usual and after a while we had to make him leave because we were going to have to close the store down. Right before he left he looked at me and asked “Hey, you gonna be here tomorrow?” and I just smiled and said “Of course, I practically live at this store.” And then he winked and walked out. I really didn’t think very much into it, nothing would come out of our occasional flirting right? I was wrong. Not even fifteen minutes after he left he calls back to the store and my friend picks up and he asks to speak to me. Well She looks at me and says “It’s Kenny, and he wants to talk to you.” I’m sitting there thinking yeah right, it’s probably my mum or my sister and she’s like “no really, it’s him” I rolled my eyes and told her that it wasn’t a funny joke and I took the phone and big surprise, it was Kenny. Well this is how the convo went…Me: What?Kenny: HeyMe:Oh looks at Sara and mouths It really is him she mouths back I know, hey…what’s up?Kenny: Is this really Katie?Me: YesKenny: No it’s notMe: Yes it isKenny: Not it’s notMe: yells at Sara Say something she yells See, told ya it was meKenny: Are you trying to be mean to me?Me: I’m not mean, I’m a very nice personKenny: I know…almost too nice sometimesMe: Is that a bad thing?Kenny: NoMe: You trying to find fault?Kenny: What?Me: Are you trying to find any fault?Kenny: What?Me: semi-yells Fault!Kenny: Who in the hell is trying to find salt?Me: starts laughing Not salt, fault…f-a-u-l-t!Kenny: Oh, no, I’m not doing that…..Long silence……Me: So…Kenny: Well… yeah….um…man I don’t know how to say this….Me: What?Kenny: Um…is it all right if I call you sometime?Me: Yeah…um… looks at Sara and mouths He asked for my numberdo you want my home number or my cell?Kenny: Well both so I know I can get ahold of youMe: Oh okay… my home is ***--** and my cell is **--…wait! I think I gave you the wrong cell number…Kenny: What?Me: I haven’t had it long.. sorry… it’s ***--Kenny: So it is ***-- right?Me: YeahKenny: Well okay thenMe: okay…byeKenny: ByeOmg, I am so excited! I mean I never in a million years thought that would happen! I’m really excited (did I say that already?) but I’m also really, really nervous. I mean he’s 11 yrs older than me (which makes him 30) and I have no problem with older guys or anything, but what would we have in common? I don’t know what to do or say when and if he calls, I’m a nervous wreck! Someone please give me some advice!
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Excited but really nervous...need advice
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**I was talking to my ex lastnight about this guy and he flipped out on me. He started yelling at me for giving this guy my number telling me that I don't know him, that he could be some dirty old man and that I should have nothing to do with him. That really pissed me off because 1) Yeah I may not know him that well but thats why I gave him my number so I can get to know him 2) Just becuase he is 30 doesn't mean he's a dirty old man, he's not even old in my opinion...besides, I've got a thing for older men and 3)He has no right to tell me who I can persue a relationship with. I told him this and he started yelling at me "Well if you want to fuck your life up go ahead but don't come crying to me when he does something like leaves you pregnant!" That made me really mad so I yelled back "What makes you think that you have any control over me sleeping with anyone? You're just pissed because I wouldn't sleep with you!" Maybe I shouldn't have said that, but it really made me angry. With that he left mumbling about something. Okay, I really like this guy, so why would my ex have such a problem about him and his age? He doesn't even know this man and yet hes judging him. What in the hell is his problem and why would he care if I were to sleep with this guy (it's really not my plan... I know plans change but still...I want to wait for as long as I can)? **
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oh your ex is just butt hurt that someone likes you. But nice going there, I think everything is starting to work out for both of us.
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I know... I am really excited for you Jon! You really deserve a nice girl, and I hope she knows how lucky she is ^_^