Typical bitter/jealous rant.

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I'm sixteen and I've been cursed with small breasts (36A). I'm small for my age (103 lbs, 5'3) but I can't help but wish I had a larger chest. I know that people around this forum would be happy to shower me with compliments saying things like, "More than a handful is a waste" and "At least they won't sag to your waist twenty years from now". That's not what I'm looking for because the truth is, guys in real life aren't like that. I have never met a guy who is truly attracted to small breasts moreso than large ones. It makes me feel so bitter when people (ie, my boyfriend) tell me things like "Your breasts are perfect", then I catch him gawking at a set of 36Ds. I know that guys can't help what they like and I'm just being a whiny, jealous teenage girl...But do any of you small-chested girls do anything to keep up your self-esteem? Does having a small chest make any of you feel inadequate? Is there anything you've watched or read that has made you feel better about having a small chest? Anything of the nature would be appreciated. Thanks.

I have never met a guy who is truly attracted to small breasts moreso than large ones. Then you haven't met enough guys. I guarantee you, you are wrong. People gawk at things that are unusual. It doesn't necessarily mean that they're attracted to them.

im a guy, but that doesnt change the fact that i can give advice about this.you say you have small breasts, but you also know that there would be girls with breasts ever smaller (so yours arent 'that' small).but most importantly, why do you care? if a guy doesnt like you because of your breast size, he is just using you anyway. no matter if you are flat chested or have huge breasts, if a guy lets that affect his decision of being with you, then he is clearly not worth it."It makes me feel so bitter when people (ie, my boyfriend) tell me things like "Your breasts are perfect", then I catch him gawking at a set of 36Ds. "think about it, if you had 36Ds, would your bf still glance at other females breasts? yep. that doesnt make him "bad", it just means a lot of males just notice them and glance at them. and in this respect, you should be HAPPY that you have smaller ones. your bf says they are perfect and there would be less people "gawking" at your chest and making you feel uncomfortable.another thing....would you rather be with the bf you have now with the breast size you have now? or would you rather have a bigger chest and have a BF that is just using you for sex?i have a gf who has a 34b breast size and sometimes i imagine that it could be "fun" if she had bigger boobs. but then i remember if she had bigger ones, then more guys who stare at her and i would feel depressed about it. so yes, as much as you "may" ignore this, just remember whats more important.being happy with someone who wants you for who you are or having a higher chance of being treated like an object.

wow that's a mean thing to say that more guys would look at your gf if she had bigger boobs...i am a 32B and many guys look at me and hit on me!

small breasts are sexier :sunglasses:

Well I can honestly say that I much rather small tits..Though I'll admit, most guys aren't like that.. Most guys think "the bigger the better"But you know what? I'm a guy in real life, and I like 'em small.Know what else? I have this friend (girl) that has breasts about your size, and she has had quite a few guys go after her just because of her tits..

Rilo, I am a guy, and I love breasts, regardless of size, because they are tied to a womans pleasure. I look at women. Period. The breast size does not matter. I would say that immature guys are hung up on bigger is better, but they will come to find this is not true. You shoud try to meet other guys. Not trying to make you feel good, not trying to passify you. Just being real.

My gf is about your size, i think same breast size (she's the smallest A cup) and she's 16 next month. She hates breasts, they are nice and firm, but if they get bigger she'll get them reduced...I will be so mad The thing is with bigger breasts like a D cup is that they are highlighted in our, us guys, vision. Meaning that they are hard to miss, but that doesn't mean we would want those breasts more than smaller ones. Might be kind of like a guy who's really tall. Just because you glanced at him doesn't mean you want him over shorter guys. Just relax, it was only a glance. Don't act like you never do that too.

I'm sixteen too (just turned last monday) and I guess you could say I am pretty big for my age. But when I was younger say around 13 or 14 I was so flat. I mean there were boys who had more chest than me. And of course I was upset about this because I thought well a guy won't like me since I have no chest. But it was really untrue because I had guys hit on me even when I had a chest lined up with my stomach. And although I had insecurity (still do) I knew that it doesn't matter what breast size you are because that's not all that matters. Right now I'm a 36dd and if I wasn't such a baby I would get them reduced, but no way in this world. My bf doesn't even care about my size so it doesn't matter. So don't worry bout it and keep your head up.

Well, I am going to be honest with you... as my forum name suggests, i am a dude, and breast size doesnt really matter to me. Although I prefer medium sized. Too big of boobs is unattractive... However, just a tad bigger than medium look really good in bikinis... But small breasts are attractive too. I really look for personality the most to be honest. If a guy only wants you for your boobs, then there's a problem in there. Guys should be caring and sweet and thoughtful and make the best of what God's given. But you know, there are some desirous men out there.

im a 34B and i actually am very satisfied with my chest size, my boyfriend likes them and my friends always say i am the perfect size... but i know what you mean, i sometimes look at my best friends boobs and wonder what it would be like to have bigger boobs

My girlfriend right now is a 36A and she is 15, I couldnt love her more.Just goes to show you, its on the inside that counts.

Most supermodels are small breasted. Many guys like girls with small boobs. And just look at Nicole Hilton...she was on the cover of Maxim just recently!

I like all sizes, dont matter to me they are all attractive. Dont worry about your size, those guys that dont like you cause you dont have big boobs are the ones that you should stay away from, they just want to use you and dont really care about you.