Hi, this is my first post, so bear with me if my grammer or spelling isn't that great.Anyways, about a year ago I got my first girlfriend. I'm her first boyfriend too. Things are great, we have tons in common and love spending time together. The problem is that she can't get me off. We aren't having sex yet, we both aren't ready for that sort of thing, but we do things like oral sex and foreplay and stuff. She has tried BJs, handjobs and stimulating every place on me she can think of, but nothing seems to work. I can get myself off just fine, and I can get her off great too. Sometimes more than once in one session, but no matter what she tries she just can't do it to me too. The only thing I can think to try is restraining from masturbating for a while (a couple of weeks) before trying things with her.Can anyone think of anything to help? Its sort of frustrating, especially since she turns me on so much, but just can't make me feel that great down there.
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My girlfriend can't make me cum
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I think you guys just need to keep trying, your penis is very used to you doing things, your grip, your speed and technique, all of that. And some anxiety may be playing a role here....just lay back and enjoy....stop thinking about how to make it happen and let it! Yes, taking a break from yourself for a while would probably help. Good luck and hang in there!
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what about introducing porn or getting her to dress sexy and stuff?good luck
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i agree with lance....
keep on trying... and probably u need to talk to her through it... u know, like talk dirty~ let her know how u like it done... stuffs that would let her know that what she is doing will make u feels good.... good luck :wink:
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In reply to: She has tried BJs, handjobs and stimulating every place on me she can think of, but nothing seems to work. Some girls just suck at sucking.
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All of your advice seems to point to just taking a break from doing things myself, and just keep trying with her, so thats what i'll do. If anyone else has some advice, I'd love to hear it. We've been trying for a while and if anyone has anything that can help it would be great.