Do you girls get mad

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Hey i was wondering, say at a party you had a bf that wasnt there and another guy was trying to get some from you but you kept saying no you had a bf, and you told your bf. So then our bf wanted to fight this guy, would you want him to or would you feel like hes being over protective? because basically that happened to me and now im going to kick this guys ass

it depends on the situation. If the other guy was being forceful and trying to touch my girl or something then yea he's got a beat down coming to him. But if he just stares at my girl or just asked her and she said no then whatever, nothing to get all worked up about.

Yah and im going to see this guy tomorrow, hes pretty big lol so we will see what happens. If i kick his ass or not. I will let you guys know, and he was trying to take advantage of her because she was drunk and yah.

Most people would come in and say: No! don't hurt others, it's wrong against humanities, blah blah blah. . .Me? I say, Violence is an asset of the human nature. If there was no violence the world wouldn't be what it is now.If he was forcing himself upon my girl, he'd probably notice that his jaw was separated from his head by my baseball bat. Anyway, don't be to hasty about using violence! See if he's really wrong and then beat him up, but if he was just asking and not being too forceful, just talk him down if you can and if he says no, baseball time!-Taison! out

I would actually prefer confronting him and making a scene. Let everyone around hear that he's trying to take advantage of girls and that you don't like it. Speak your mind on how you feel about guys like that. Don't be too scared to walk away... then again, if he starts the physical action then let things commence. In the end, you'll come out the winner either way.

Yah see i was just going to talk to him because i thought he didnt know we were going out, which is understandable you know hes just trying to hook up. But i found out he knew, and me and him are alright. We talked everyonce in a while but now im gonna smash his face in

The mind is stronger than the fist. Think it over. If you beat his ass with no foreseen cause (as seen by 3rd party) then he'll just be some guy who got his ass beat. If you hurt his personality in the minds of others, he'll be the jackass guy who needed his ass beat... and you did that for them. Plus, things might spread around about what he tried to do and you may even save some girls from considering this jerk. See what I'm sayin? I've messed with this one guy so bad in high school that no girls would date him... but before the incident he was supposedly hot shit to all the girls and all the prep guys he hung with.

seriously though you wanna try to avoid getting into a fight if possible. No matter if you think u can win or whatever. What does violence lead to? more violence..with all the shit thats happening around the world, the possibility of someone or their friends seeking revenge for beating them is pretty high. Last thing you want is to get shot or stabbed over something this silly. It might not happen today or tomorrow but theres always that possibilty. Being big and tough and beating up everyone just because you can doesnt make you a man. The person who is brave enough to solve this in a more civilized way without resorting to violence is a bigger man.and dont try to turn this around saying that people who dont fight are wusses or whatever, people who fight have a higher chance of getting hurt or killed thats how i see it.

I don't think it would be good to be completely passive, but I agree with what you've said to a certain extent. I thought I wrote this is my last post, but don't be afraid to walk away either.

Haha yah it would but im not worried about him, hes one of them little mexican wanna be gangbangers so im not worried, he does have some big cousins but im cool with all of them.

Yah thats true violence usally leads to more, and i know whenever one of my friends gets there ass kicked and it was either a cheap shot or he got jumped, we get a couple guys to go deal stuff out, so yah. But these guys dont listen to words there to stupid you have to deal with them the other way.

if u are kool with their bigger cousins then why dont u tell them to kick his ass. Nothing hurts a persons ego more than getting their ass beat by a family member.

Because they wont, but they know i have a reason to, if they get pissy with me i have much bigger and older friends who will talk to them either way.

there you go again dude, its like a vicious cycle dont you see it??? you fight one dude, his cousins get mad, you call your friends to fight back, they end up calling their friends too...now you got a war going on.

Yah but that wont happen, cuz all my bigger friends r good friends with there cousins and will make them understand

In reply to: Yah but that wont happen, cuz all my bigger friends r good friends with there cousins and will make them understand You have this in writing? Before you try to start anything, or even attempt to confront, realize that escalation is a serious possibility here. And be prepared to deal with the consequences of the actions that might follow. 1. You make first contact, a shove or push, or land the first punch. That immediately turns his reaction into a self-defense position. 2. Someone gets hit in a serious way: Nose bone to the brain, that's instant death.3. He files a lawsuit against you: Ass. and Batt. You now have a criminal record. 4. It comes to light that there was underage drinking. Again, not something authority figures commend. So I'm just saying, think about what COULD happen AFTER the fight, before you just start out on your conquest to prove who's the better fighter.

Obviously you dont know my highschool or middle school, they were 19 fights in my middle school last year(in 8th grade alone), 3 in one day which was fucking crazy lol, and alot in the highschool also

ONLY 3 a day. I wish it was that less for my high school...

What do you mean i have this in writing? lol
And these guys arent the kind of people to go to the cops, they are the cops enemy basically. And its not like they carry guns they just have alot of drug charges and shit.
But i understand all of you are just making sure i think through all of this and i thank you for it i have been thinking for a while and what to do. So thank you all again

Yah see you live in new york lol, i live in a town of 10,000 people and 200 kids in my 8th grade class