You people are sick

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> so they can make the right choice

Or so even if they make the wrong choice, they'll do the right thing.

I am still a vrigin and proud. Alot of my friends are too... ok that's a lie not alot but few. I really am in no rush at all whatsoever. I just want to enjoy life and all that. And then I will have sex with the man I love, maybe around 18 I really don't know. Cause seriously I really do not want a rubber in me. That just doesn't seem sexy at all to me. I know I'm weird. But I like skin better than clothed. My own theory don't try to understand. I say if you want to do it, do it. If you don't then don't. All I know is my kids will be beginning college before they have sex. I have seen too much drama to be a part of those "situations".

All I know is my kids will be beginning college before they have sex.Unless you keep them in a cage, you can't know that for sure. Better they they get educated, just in case. We don't want any accidental teen pregnancies.

Yeah, honestly as much as I love sex, I'd really like a virgin for a wife, tells you that she's clean ( if you know what I mean ).

Yah how are you going to stop your kids from doing that, you cant all you can do is educate them, like my mom told me, her mom said if she ever got pregnent not to come home, so what happened... my mom got preg. thats why my mom is not going to let that happen with me and my sister, thats why she told me shes not dumb and that if im in a serious relationship things are going to happen, and she would rather give me some condoms then have me do it unprotected and chance everything i have going for me

In reply to: Yeah, honestly as much as I love sex, I'd really like a virgin for a wife, tells you that she's clean ( if you know what I mean ). Isn't that pretty selfish, maybe even hypocritical? You want to enjoy sex but you want your wife to be a virgin when you get married. And how will she know you're clean?

It all depends on how you raise them as they are kids. My mom kept telling me from the time I was 10 years old education, marriage, sex, kids. I don't know about all that, whole marriange thing. But if I do have it I want it to be with my fiance so he'll know he's getting something fresh and new to work with. Too many details sorry. I don't really want my kids running around pregnant not knowing who the daddy is. I would at least want them to show a little innocence... ha. Innocence is good. You mostly get it from children.

Yeah, I know how some parents try to keep their kids in check, I know one girl who's dated a guy for a year without her parents knowing, now what the hell can you do? Seriously, she told me he climbed through to her window to get to her, and when her parents aren't home ( obviously ) though they tried leaving their son with her so that he'd tell them if anything went wrong. She just dropped her brother at his friend's house and that's it, wow, a year without her parents knowing, amazing.

"she would rather give me some condoms then have me do it unprotected and chance everything i have going for me"Wow, big ups to your mom.

Kids with the best possible parents sometimes wind up on one end or the other of a pregnancy. Better to educate all of them than have one of them get accidentally pregnant. Unless you plan to move to Saudi Arabia or some such place.(I can't remember what it was like to be so idealistic.)

Are you being sarcastic?

Parents are so oblivious these days. Half the percentage of parents that live on my block don't know where there kids are. You should see how many times my sister almost hits a kid because they run out in the middle of the street. Or maybe it's just her driving skills. But they need to know that cars don't bleed, they do.

No, I'm not.

Alright.

sometimes it has to do with that specific family too. I know my parents were really strict and they said if i ever got a girl pregnant before I finished school, I'd be on my own. Same thing with my gf's parents they would have disowned her if she got pregnant before she finished school so she never took the risk.

There are many reasons why people my age are havning sex at young ages. (no i havn't done it myself)

My first guess, media. No not like news channels and stuff. But parents arn't restricting what childeren watch on tv, and the movies they see with other freinds. There's alot of sex on TV today, alot more so then there was before.

My second guess is because childeren are maturing at a younger age, this doesn't make it any better though My guess is that kids are geting older, younger because of the growth hormones they put in artafical meat products, like cows.

hm... W/e

I just graduated this year...a virgin. Between all my friends half of them are virgins and the other half aren't. Two of my friends have kids. And out of those two one of them was a freshman friend of mine whose baby was almost two, and her mother was taking care of her child for her. I think your having sex to early when you are not prepared to deal with all possible consequences of having it. Condoms break...And personally for myself I know I am not financially, emotionally, or just even ready to have a kid. And for those people out there who are 13-17 and don't use condoms...it breaks my heart for your stupitity, and now your reproducing...

I am in a class of 50, all 17/18 and only 6 or 7 have had sex.

hehe trixy thanks for the story. I agree with you completely. Most kids arent emotionally ready and financially ready to be having kids. THey think just using a condom when having sex will guarantee they wont get pregnant or contract some disease. But when the condom breaks who do they run to? their parents....

In reply to: But when the condom breaks who do they run to? their parents.... Not straight away, they clean up a bit first. Maybe put on an item of clothing or two.