Teenagers and Parents having sex

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I am the father of teenage daughters who are slowly becoming aware of their sexuality. My wife and I are very active sexually. We have passionate sex almost every other day and I am sure my daughters know that. I wonder how it affects them.Thanks for your response

It only needs to be posted in one forum. This should remaind either under relationships or teen life and health.

You're not having it in front of them?

As a parent you should probably want to knuckle down and set a good example for them.

Yeah, show them how its done.

THAT'S NOT WHAT I MENT!!! :P

Isn't it, Hee? Isn't it?

Obviously Not. We do it on our bedroom

Well what do you mean by saying that they know that you're having sex?

Even when we are careful, it is difficult to keep it completely quiet. Also we tend to go to sleep earlier than our kids.

turn the radio or tv on really loud

Yeah, so everytime the 9 O'clock news comes on, your kids can cover there ears.

Does that not bother you? Knowing that your daughters here you guys going at it? Well, I just gotta say, don't be too on their case when they start having sex or that's something they might use against you.

lol bobalicious!

how old are your daughters? If you think they might already be sexually active you should talk to them about sex. In a way you can use that fact that they know you and your wife are having sex to your advantage. I mean you can tell them that you guys have sex because you are married and love each other very much or something and that you guys only have it because you are financially ready and you do it because you have a family already. Let them know that sex isnt something you do with any guy or even just any boyfriend. Tell them they shouldnt be doing anything like this because they could get pregnant and it'll destroy their lives. Tell them about aids and stds. And put some fear into them by telling them if they ever got pregnant or got some disease you'd disown them.

I do not believe that they are sexually active. My wife and I have practical conversations about sex with them. I believe that they know our value system. They are in high school

Ahhh... the parental delusion of control and knowledge. Never fails to amuse me.

I don't think it's acceptable for parents to have to stop having sex because their children might hear. There's nothing wrong in any belief system I know with a married couple having sex, and the children should learn to deal with it.

I totally agree............i think its a very healthy thing, tho saying that the thought of my parents having sex shivers LOL

If the couple is aware that their children can hear them, then I think they need to quiet their sessions down.