Grrrrrr!!!!! How anoying and childish.

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I'm finding kids my age to be less and less toleratable. Boys my age are constatly asking questions concerning whether or not I'm gay. The honest answer, i dont know. I cant imagine myself being in a relationship with a boy, however I'm not entirely confortable socialising with girls either. This is what anoys me, openly in public, i never talk about the penis, organsims, and sex. When i say, i dont know. They act as if i am, make gestures of discomfort as if i do have an attracten to them. and start making comments about anal sex. This ticks me off, they're the ones with the dirty mouths and yet they see it fit to consider me gay. It doesn't upset me, it just anoys me. Any sugjestions?

tell em to piss off..............well it might work!

just say..."what does it matter if i were gay or not, even if i was I wouldn't date your ugly ass...I think you are just taking your homophobia out on me because you have nothing better to do since your not getting any. Or maybe your worried that I am getting more then you and your jealous? Well whatever your problem is you need to grow up."...hmmm thats probably what I would say...

I'm great with reverse sycology, so... trying to get them to leave or shut up wont do much for me. I usually respond to things like that with "sure" or "what-ever you want to belive, you believe it"

(btw: does me hating guys make me gay?)

they are just immature. no not liking guys doesnt make you gay...wouldnt that make hetero?!(not gay) and not being into girls or anything doesnt make you gay either. Maybe you just dont see anything in the girls at your school just yet so you dont wanna waste your time with them. Just ignore them or continue with the reverse psychology thing. Try to turn their words around on them and make them feel stupid. Eventually they'll give up. If they keep coming up to you bothering you just say something like "dude I think you are the gay one since you keep coming to me and talking about all that gay shit. You are just calling me gay to hide that fact that you're the gay one" something along those lines. Embarrass them infront of their friends or lots of people and they will leave you alone. If you really wanna get back at them, report to a teacher or someone older that you think they are making sexual advances at you hahahaha

Well a friend (he is totally straight) of mine was with these 4 guys who he had just met. One of the guys asked him if he was gay. My friend said, "Would u like to step into the bathroom and repeat that question." The other guys didn't say a word. LOLThis answer will probably make the kids think you are gay, but it would definately shut them up!

what a bunch of homophobes.

who abc123? Me????

no those friends you are talking about

Lol...oh ok...I know my friend isen't but those other 4 guys might be...dunno I have never met them.

Homophobia is more about a dislike of gays then a fear of them.I'd never say that, sadly boys can, just like girls. tell people whatever they want, and what they say, is truth no questions asked. Trust me on that :/ (it's happened to me twice in my short 12 years on this earth) if i said that to them they would go around telling people "OH HE SAID _____"

yea thats what i meant, homophobe because that dudes friends friends or whatever were scared when he asked him to tell him that he was gay in the bathroom.

naw i'd humiliate myself too much.

In reply to: Homophobia is more about a dislike of gays then a fear of them what? It's more a "dislike" for homosexuals, rather then just a "fear" of them? I dislike the color red...i must be a red-o-phobe. Good Lord I love labels. Dude if you're gay, just say it...if you're bi just say it...if you're straight, just say it, and if you don't know, just say it man. No need to beat around the bush and try to avoid uncomfortable situations, i.e. talking openly about sexual experiences, and organs. The sooner they know about you, the less likely they are to question it, or even talk about it in a manner to get you to say it.

I don't know. Unless youre a good fighter, adolescence is not necessarily the best time to come out in public.

It's true that people often make fun of those of whom they are jelous, afraid, or insecure. Some of the most virulent homophobes are later reavealed to be gay. Jim West, mayor of Spokane, WA is one prime example.

In reply to: Homophobia is more about a dislike of gays then a fear of them. That's not true. Phobia = fear.

The abridged American Heritage dictionary has two definitions for phobia:In reply to: 1. A persistent, abnormal, and irrational fear of a specific thing or situation that compels one to avoid it, despite the awareness and reassurance that it is not dangerous. 2. A strong fear, dislike, or aversion.and two definitions for homophobia:In reply to: 1. Fear of or contempt for lesbians and gay men. 2. Behavior based on such a feeling.

just tell them it's not funnt and it's something private and u don't have to answer them or even tell them anything... for real, sometime people asked not interesting in the answer but just wanting to piss u off... so it's normal to feel annoyed, because they might have the right to ask and u also have the right to not answer... :wink:

My answer is, I DONT KNOW but sadly that's not the answer they want. I'm almost positive they're doing it to find ways to dislike me. (btw: what is bisexual)

Those guys are just bullying you. Does your school have any kind of anti-bullying program? Could you tell a teacher or a school counselor? Is there any adult you could talk to?