I dont masturbate like everyone else. while most guys will get themselves off by stroking their shaft, I tend to do it laying down, and methodically pressing against my shaft while it is semi-erect, pressing and grinding it. I've been doing it this way for as long as I can remember, and I can't seem to get myself off by stroking :angry:
now my girlfriend enjoys giving me handjobs, but even though I love it, I just can't come. Maybe it's because we always do it in the dark... if it was done otherwise, would it make a difference?
Anyway, I'm scared to go further with her because I'm afraid that nothing she does with regards to manually stimulating me will make me climax. She's done it before with nothing but heavy making out and touching, and I found myself getting excited and shooting precum (and i think i came a few times but i'm not sure because it was very drawn out).. but I'm still concerned.
Have I indirectly messed up my sex life by making it so hard to come? :confused: