Rape turns me on

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ok i dont know if this is normal or not but whenever someone mentions rape or i see a hot girl, i always think about raping her. rape really really gets my penis engorged with blood. of course i would never actually rape a girl but i get so horny thinking about it. all the moaning and just thinking about her screaming and helpless. god im gonna go whack it right now. btw is this normal? do i need to seek help?

No, it's not normal and maybe you should go seek help. If those around you found that out alot of girls would stay away from you. Actually, that's kinda scary dude.

as long as you NEVER do it, i think its ok. I used to have a fantasy of being raped, but i would never want to be really.

as long as it stays as a fantasy then it should be ok. Are you into bondage and s&m stuff? Maybe you can get into that instead of rape. Rape usually is very violent and hurts people so you can see why not many people are into it.

um... o-k-a-y then.............

well, it's not a normal idea... but i can definitly see where u r coming from... some rape porn r very kinky (but all r fake)... role play can be fun... but all that can't even compare to really rape incident... real rap isn't fun at all... :confused:

my g/f loves role play rape..she had some old dresses to throw out & she asked if i fancied ripping & tearing one off her.it was highly exhilerating & it led to some great frenzied sex..id love to try it in a quiet wood somewhere & ravage her in a pile of leaves..harmless fantasy is the best release!!

that sounds kinda fun..but actual RAPE is just wrong.

It's hard to judge someone over a message board like that, but right off that bat, you're triggering little warning lights. The thing is, rape fantasies aren't problematic by themselves, just like most other dangerous fantasies, as long as they remain just that. The important thing is, just how likely are you to ever go out and try it in real life?For some people, the line is very thin between the thought and the act. You should also know that rape isn't about physical pleasure, but about the desire to humiliate and control someone else through sex. If those are feelings you have and if they are strong, I think you should examine in detail why you fell like that, and possibly get help for it. Don't wait in case you ever do try it for real and start getting addicted to it, because it will be too late by then.

i dont think its abnormal. as a man you are conflicted between your alpha male animal side and your evolved human mind. i think its natural for the male human to feel like ravishing a woman. however thru evolution and the development of rational thought we have as a species relized that it is moraly wrong. so just continue to wack off. dont ever do it, if you do you are an asshole

What you are forgetting is that being turned on in any way by women is normal. Fetish, strap-on whatever it is it is normal.
Being aroused by rape and doing it is entirly different. People who are turned on by rape are jsut the same as people who have foot fetish's. What the people here saying it is wrong forget about is that real life rape has nothing to do with sex! It's about control and being in control. That's why rapists do what they do, they try to solve a void in their life.

http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/problems/rape_what_to_do.html

Speaking as someone who HAS been raped, I'm actually shocked that so many people are quick to say that it's okay to be turned on by this. Rough, consensual sex is one thing. I believe rape fantasies only stay fantasies for so long before the urge is too great and it has to be acted out. When you have a partner who is into getting rough, and a safe word, I see no harm. 'Rape' is no joke though. I swear it's one of the scariest things I've been through. It's not easy to describe what it's like being seriously violated, especially by someone you trusted. There is no 'moaning', just screaming, crying and pleading to be released.I'd be very very careful and speak with someone, if I were you.

I agree. Sorry that happened to you. That's what I spoke to my friend about. He always had a fantasy to rape someone and I told him it was wrong because people always try adn wish for their "fantasies" to come true. It's pretty dangerous.

My girlfriend (yes, I mention her a lot, but she is a dirty bitch!) has rape fantasies. We've acted it out a lot and she loves it. She loves having clothes ripped off her, her underwear stuffed in her mouth, etc. It was something that turned me on years ago, before I met her, but then I went off it. I do it for her, but it's not my biggest fantasy.

But why rape of all things. I thought sex was supposed to be passionate and full of love! Oh wait... no sorry wait... that's not reality forgive me. Carry on.

Yep, thanks to the media and other outside influences, sex has been looked on as something that can be done with anyone, with or without that variable, "love," in the equation. Some people aren't like this but anyway . . .These fantasies of you raping someone are, well I'll admit a little weird, but everyone is different. As long as you never act on these urges and fantasies, then no harm done, but I'd talk to someone, besides people on the board about it.

I think people often say 'rape' but really just mean rough sex, which is fine. For those with girlfriends, I don't think you'd stand the thought of someone having sex with her against her will.

I have nothing against getting a little rough and tearing off clothes, or even really loud moaning and screaming when both parties are into it. The original, and a couple other posters though, which they say they'd never do it, seem to have a thing for looking at random girls and think about raping them. I think that should seriously be discussed with a professional.

All i think i need to say is that is a very sick thought of being turned on about the fact of rapeing a girl agnest her will. Are you really in fact thinking of doing it or did you get the idea from those rape porn sites. ether way thinking is one thing, doing is another.

Yes, distinguishing between rough sex, and actual "rape" is important. Rough sex still implies consent from both parties, so although it might be played as a rape fantasy, limits are still there and nobody is forced to do against their will. In real rape, most of the thrill comes from taking control and humiliation the other where it hurts the most, his/her sexuality. What's really fucked up about our society is that some people think that when their partners say no, they really mean yes. Make no mistake, rape can be something as simple as a guy who goes ahead and fucks his girlfriend despite her not wanting to do it, even if she eventually gives up and take it unwillingly.