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giRL420

FRIENDS THAT FUCK.

yeah, i just recently started fucking around with afriend of mine. we aren't going out.. we both justcame out of really traumatizing relationships. Sobasically, we "use" each other for "sex" (not intercourse,i'm a virgin.. just oral and hand/finger love. ha ha.).. but we're also good friends.i'm just really curious what you guys think aboutwhat i'm doing. do you guys think im a total slut?do you think it's normal? do you think it's impossible for a girl to fuck around andnot get emotionally attatched? i dunno. i justwant to know what you guys think. :][and if you do think i'm a slut, tell me that becauseit won't hurt my feeLings, i really don't give a fuck,i'm just curious what the majority of peopLe thinkabout these kinds of relationships is all.]
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I don't think there's anything wrong with "friend with benifits", been there done that.As long as you both are clear it's just sex and nothing more than getting emotionally attached shouldn't be much of an issue (though can still happen). Just do what feels right to you and be safe about it.
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InfamousJarl

Just don't do anything you would regret. Things like that can spread, and people may think youre a slut or something. Just be careful..but all in all..I don't think there is anything wrong with that.
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damien

I personally think that sex creates either emotional ties, emotional dysfunction, or emotional baggage. We can pretend it means nothing, but it always means something.I know that is not a popular view here and I respect that (and will probably not respond to disagreements), but it's my opinion...and my expreience.
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D-Teck

FWB's never work. I've tried it twice and both times we ended up getting too attached. The relationship is just crap from there...
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Smooches

Wow you like saying that word alot.Sex isn't the answer to everything. You should talk about it with words than with physical contact. You'll end up regretting it if you continue.
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Miku

oh yeah... that's often seen... have a lot of friends like that.... but i am not invovle in any....
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abc123

it would be nice to have a fuck buddy but reality is that the other person probably fucks other people too and you might get some stds.
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SteveA

Wow you like saying that word alot.You meant the word "that"? Yeah, it should be "Friends who f**k".
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Miku

um..... well, u get what i mean without a problem....
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SteveA

Huh? I thought I replied to Smooches.
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countplusplus

In reply to:We can pretend it means nothing, but it always means something.In reply to:FWB's never work. In reply to:You'll end up regretting it if you continue. I've had casual sex that made the movie Very Bad Things seem like a string of good luck, and I've had casual sex that was pretty good, and for me, caused no emotional problems.I think for some people it works, and for others it doesn't.The people quoted above, it doesn't. Whether or not you're one of them is really for you to find out.
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websexinfo

It seems that in most occasions, a situation like this ends up where one person starts to like the other one and when the sex ends someone gets hurt. Just throwing that out there.
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Barbie_014

There is nothing wrong with messin around with your friend. Make sure that he knows that if you want to stop messin around like that, that you still want to be friends!!!
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winged

Exactly. It's hard to be completely in sync. Especially when it comes to ending the sex. It's very rare that people can just go back to being just friends. One person starts seeing someone else and the other feels weird about it. Feelings start getting in the way. This is why I've always kept friends and fuck buddies separate.
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anondude

control it... just like "seeing other people" the movie.. it can get down on ya!
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StrapingYoungLad

I've done that with a friend! Again no sex just oral and hands. We dont do it anymore as we stopped as soon as we found someone to have a relationship with and we're both still really close friends and tell each other like everything, we just dont share our bodies anymore, maybe someday we will again, depends if we're both single at the same time again or not.
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stars

me and my boyfriend used to be friends with benefits, i guess it worked out fantastically we both ended up liking eachother haha
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bangoskank

I have a very good friend that I've known for many (more than I care to count) years. When we're with someone, we're friends. When we're not with someone, we're with each other. It's like having a SO all the time.

If two people are right for it, it can be a really great thing.
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