My wife an I were discussing fantasies the other day and I told her some of mine that I thought that she would be disgusted by but wasn't. She actually was quite into all of the ideas. She was telling me what she would like to do as well and I thought that everthing sounded interesting. She did have one though that I would like to try, partly for myself but mostly for her (it would probably be the most intense trun on for her that she has ever experienced). She would like to have a threesome with us and another guy. We've had experiences with other women and couples but never with just another guy. I don't know that I would have a problem with the whole situation except that I don't know how turned on (if at all) I would be by another guy. I mean we talk about it in bed and she uses her toys to simulate me giving bj's and anal play; but its still her and I'm tuened on by that. Any advice?? Should we try it and see how things go, just let it remain her fantasy, what?? Ahhhh, I'm at such a loss. I just don't know what to becuase I want to make her happy and at the same time she has done so many things that I have wanted to do.
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Wife's fantasies
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the difficult thing there might not be whether you are turned on but rather if it ends up hurting you emotionally to have the interaction between your wife and the other guy. As open minded as I am, if some guy started doing my wife, I'd lose it (even if it did seem like a good idea at the time). I admitt to having a few jelousy issues but I think that goes beyond what most men could endure.Just be carefull. It might be best left as a fantacy.
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I agree with unsupervied. Though the idea of a threesome seems very attractive and erotic I don't think I could handle another man touching my man! I'm not a jealous person either but when it comes to my man.. I don't share hehe.Though if someone wanted to watch us have sex (they could maserbate as they watched), I'd be cool with that.. just no touchy! hehe
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I'll be right over!
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My wife has no desire to be with another man in the threesome. She wants me to be with her and another guy.
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yeah, I can understand how that would be a little different. It's still important that you and your wife establish your boundries and the communicate them clearly to the other guy.
