How do YOU deal with it?

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Some of us already passed that stage, some haven't reached it, some of the luckier ones never will. Unwanted erections. Whether it's your girlfriend is sitting on your lap in front of your friends, you're hugging, or just have your arm around her, you get an erection. How do you avoid those unwanted occurrences? Share your ways with us I'm also very easily eretcted, which has been stopping me from getting a gf for a while now.

Hey bud..they don't ever stop, sorry. Please don't be embarassed by them and definately don't avoid girls because of it....many of them find it very cool that we sometimes get so excited to be with them. Besides man, that penis has a mind of its own and sometimes its all about what way the wind is blowing and has nothing at all to do with anything remotely sexual. Just happens bud, we're all the same here.

usually if I only get them when I'm around girls i like. If i happen to be hugging one of them i just pull them closer so they can feel it. If they are sitting on my lap I either try to adjust myself so that my dick is between her cheeks (imagine a hotdog in a bun) or I tell her to get up so that i adjust myself. I just tell her upfront that it hurts if its not between her cheeks or if i dont adjust it.

What i do is try to turn it into something funny like saying something like "Oh you made me happy" and such, but i mean if your with your girlfriend ands he freaks out about it then i dont htink yous hould waste your time with her because most know that it is normal and these things just happen and sometimes for no reason even if the wind blows the wrong way you know?

I don't know, I feel very different... I was at a school dance and everyone around were dancing normally with their gfs or just girls, but after i was done dancing I had a full erection... others didn't seem to have one. Is it normal to "rub" it on her? like even if you were dating for one day? I'm only 14, I feel very insecure about this...

Hey, that really helps. These are very supportive forums. I didn't really realize that others may have boners too... well I guess SOME don't get them
Plus I never tried tight underwear, thank god I still have a pair or two of tidy whities :laughing:
btw you weren't talking to me when you said you have issues right?

I've rubbed up against a cousin before. She enjoyed and and I did. Thats pretty much it.

i got one today at work...i sat down real fast...no need for my manager to see that.

Yea, don't ya hate pitching a tent at awkward times? I NEVER have em, but as soon as I put on a pair of gym shorts, there it goes. No, it's not obvious in gym shorts.... :rolls eyes:

Not gay here but they get boners too!

It's REALLY nice to find out you're not different, one way or the other. Oh and I was watching this kind of old movie from the 90's, and some guy put in the other guy's soup salt or pepper can't remember what it was, and he was having... sexual intercourse with a woman and he couldn't get it up. Is that a myth/fiction?

There are compounds that make it harder to get it up, but they have other side-effects as well. SSRI anti-depressants can have that effect.

It may have been saltpeter (potassium nitrate). There's an old myth that it reduces libido.

It is just that: a myth. Salt peter is poisonous, and unless you want to make your entire body limp, don't start ingesting it. (Fun Fact: It's also a principal ingredient in dynamite!)