Has anyone done this? I have a few times and love it. Am i bi?
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Fingering your own ass?
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I've done it. I guess that makes me gay. Oh, wait, I AM gay!
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I am gay but i don't like my little ass being inserted.
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This has been discussed in a few other threads. "Ass" play is normal for straight guys, doesn't make a person gay just because they like ass play. Now if you get turned on by men and find it sexually arrousing.. than thats a different topic.
Don't worry so much about being gay. You're fine :smile:
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I'm straight and do it every session, so i must love it! Stretch my legs apart and rub that spot and feel the Ecstasy that makes me gag for more.
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i've tried it once it was ok
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Been there. Done that. It just sucks.Just don't jam anything that might not come out.
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Just don't jam anything that might not come out. ^That makes sense.I find anal masturbation alot of hassle, unless i'm really in the mood then it's cool.
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Ive tried a few times but cant ever find the spot, i dont really get much out of it besides shit on my finger, also it hurts my wrist to get my hand in that position.
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Well I'm not gay butt(!), I LOVE assplay! Finger, dildo,plugs.
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sigh You're not bi unless you enjoy having sex with men. Liking things like sucking your own penis or fucking your own ass has nothing to do with it.As for me, I like fingering my ass from times to times. I don't do it regularily though, so every time it takes me about an hour to reach my limit (three fingers) and have fun without any pain.
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I can usually get 4 fingers in comforatably and working my way up to all of em. I just love the feeling of being stretched and the pressure on my prostate that the 4 fingers gives me. I literally leak precum and cum (after about 15 minutes of fun) and end up having a total mess, but it's totally worth it. Just have plenty of lube and you'll be fine.What I use, baby oil, unless I use rubber gloves. The baby oil eats thru latex.
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Ive tried a few times but cant ever find the spot, i dont really get much out of it besides shit on my finger, also it hurts my wrist to get my hand in that position.
I must agree with the shit on your fingers part. Other than that, I would do it more often.
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I have tried it a few times it was ok..
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Well, the obvious solution would be getting an enema beforehand, though I'll admit being too shy to actually go out and buy a kit
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heh, yeah I can see the problem...I tried fingering myself after hearing anal play could be quite pleasuring (both from hetero and gay people), and I was getting kind a curious after watching so much anal porn where the girls seemed to like it. I know you can never count on porn, but I was curious anyho. So I tried a finger a couple of times - did'nt recieve as much as I thought I would, so I decided to try a tool instead (one that was bigger and longer than a finger red.) Tried a hammer shaft -didnt work (forgot the lube ) my ass couldnt open up to it, so I tried a thin paint brush instead. It went up all right, farther up than my finger and when I felt I had reached the limit, I stopped and let it be there. It felt kind a good, to feel the internal pressure on my rectum, but I didnt recieve anything near the pleasure I had hoped for. After that I tried fingering myself only once more. I kind a gave up on it as I was disappointed, and I was afraid of being different (a hetero playing anal games).You talk about fingering, but why not use a tool? Haven't most of the guys who tried a finger also experimented with a tool? It seems the most natural thing to me, to explore the whole of the sexual area... You really cant do this with just your fingers...
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With assplay (yourself or someone else doing it for you), the angle is all important.
Keep experimenting, when you hit the right spot, you'll know it for sure.
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I must agree with the shit on your fingers part. Other than that, I would do it more often.
I honestly can't say I've ever had that problem.
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I'm not so sure about tools. Although I've never actually used any true anal toys, I've tried a few things like a toothbrush handle and such and they were just too smooth to provide much pleasure. As for butt plugs, well just having something stuck in my ass doesn't do much for me either, although I might try it someday. My best bet would be a small textured dildo, not too rough but enough to actually provide sensations while pushing it in and out. However, I'm much too embarassed to step into a sex shop, compounded with the fear of someone finding it in my home (while I live alone, my family visit quite often, and my mother always seems to put her nose right where it doesn't belong. In any case, finger are fine for me, it's just the position that's awkward since it puts a strain on my wrist when my fingers are inside.
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Butt plugs actually kinda scare me, for some reason. I did get a small dildo a few weeks ago though and have barely left my house since. Hmm... what position are you usually in, ShyGuy666? If you're lying back, you shouldn't have much strain on your wrist. Try putting a pillow under you if you're usually lying back and getting wrist strain anyway.