Well, my back isn't all that flexible, so whenever I'm fingering my ass, I'm usually sitting on my back with my legs pulled back as much as possible, and my arm is almost completely extended. When I'm pushing my fingers in, my wrist is bent at about 90 degrees, which can hurt after a while. I hesitate in trying another position since penetration really feels best in that position because of the way my fingers are pointing. Another alternative is fingering my ass from behind which is less straining by feels weird (my finger aren't pointing exactly the same way) and although it's more comfortable for my arm/wrist, it's less so for my body. I really should try experimenting more
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Fingering your own ass?
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I've been fingering my own ass for some time now. I usually take a long time to get off so I find the fingering adds pleasure to the mix. I think it's a combination of spreading my legs wide apart and getting my middle finger up there. I find fingering kewl especially after I've been edging for a hour or so. When I finally shoot, I shoot great gobs of semen out two or three feet
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So... Do you use tools or have you tried to? As I've said before it seems the most natural thing to me. It's easier to work with (no pressure on the wrist) often have a better form, than you can make with your fingers, AND it can go further. You can't stimulate the whole of the sexual area with your fingers. Not long enough. Although the anus is the most erogen part, the rest of the rectum is an erogen zone as well. Although it does respond most to pressure rather than touch.I read that one-third of all males regurlarly masturbate with a finger in their ass. I've also read that many males prefer a buttplug or a dildo inserted in their rectum, rather than other stimulations, like prostate massage. The rectum is a sexual area too. Not just the anus or the prostate. Just thought you should know.
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I fully agree on that. I personally see no point to rubbing my prostate, as it hardly provides any additional pleasure. I much prefer stimulating by anus and my rectum, and you're right about the pressure thing. Nothing feels better to me than stuffing my ass with three fingers and turning them and pushing all around the inside, although a toy would be better and less straining
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Get one of these and you'll thank me later!http://www.malegspot.com/default.phpAwesome and it works!
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I've heard about that toy before.. I believe it works as a prostate massager. When it really gets down to it, the rectum, the anus and the prostate are all sexual areas, or have the ability to be it. But it's different from person to person what they prefer. What they prefer depends on how sensitive they are in the different areas. That too, difer from person to person. Some would like a buttplug to massage and stimulate the whole area. Some would not. Some would like to just massage their prostate and forget about the rest. Some would not.But I believe, that if you try one thing, experiment with one thing, then youre bound to try the other as well. If you're interested in massaging your prostate in your anus, and you do it, then your almost bound to feel that the whole area is sexually sensitive, or perhaps you hear about other persons that enjoy stimulating the whole area. If you enjoy stimulating the whole (or the most) of the rectum, you're almost bound to hear about the famous g-Spot a.k.a. the prostate, and would naturally explore it. I still has that to experience. But when you go for the prostate, you have to have a lot of pressure on that exact spot. Otherwise you'll miss it. I did. I never felt anything on that spot just by putting my finger up the anus, or that paint brush. But my guess is that far the most people who try a finger, also try out some kind of tool. Am I right?
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For those of you giving up on anal masturbation after not doing much for them: before you give up on it, make sure you masturbate to orgasm while having something in your anus and hitting your prostate - that's where the real fun is. Having something in your anus and against your prostate while cumming makes the orgasm much more intense and longer lasting. I don't get much enjoyment just playing with my ass either - but when I orgasm while playing with my ass, the orgasm is like WOW!
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What you say is correct in a way, and then again, not. It's different from person to person. You obviously have a very erogen prostate, and can use it to great advantage. Not everybody can. Shyguy prefers the anus and rectum, many other guys have it the same way. Focus, you prefer the prostate, as do many others which means nothing else other than that were all different. The anus, prostate and rectum are all erogen zones. Or should we say, have the oppurtunity to be so. It's different from person to person how sensitive we are. Have you ever stimulated your rectum with a longer tool than your finger? a dildo, a buttplug hammershaft what ever?
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While looking after a friend's apartment in LA recently I was suprised by what I saw in his stand up shower stall. I was about to shower and noticed a towel hanging over, what I thought was a towel hook.
In actual fact, it was a plasticized, adjustable, wall mounted penis. It was about 9" long, tan coloured and mounted to the ceramic wall. Curious as I was I couldn't believe how real this thing worked.
Naturally, I showered, got myself all lubed up and gently worked this thing into and around my ass. Needless to say, I was fully erect and greatly aroused. After finding the right position for me, I found myself fully immersed in this thing.
It wasn't long before I had worked my seed to the top. My orgasim was awesome!
When my friend came back, he said he forgot to take it down. He uses it regularly and says it's a lot safer than some of the friends he knows.
Apparently it cums in various sizes and colours!
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Well, how far did it go? Where you stimulating your anus and rectum or your prostate? Where was the pleasure centered so to speak? And have you ever tried any other kind of assplay than that?
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i did it twice, YEARS ago. i just got like up to the first knuckle of my middle finger and curled it toward my dick. i kinda felt my prostate and cummed almost imediatly. just recently my wife said after sex that during sex (i was jerking off on her tits to cum) that she was thinking about playing w/ my anal area, like not just buttcheeks. i just smiled, we didn't say much more.
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once in a great while i'll finger myself while masturbating. but its not nearly as enjoyable as the time when i was fingered & sucked/jacked off by another guy. if you do it to yourself you aren't gay/bi unless you are attracted to other guys. lots of straight guys like being fingered and having their prostrate stimulated. totally nothing wrong with that. whatever turns you on and gets you off!
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if you put stuff up your ass and you say ur straight u are probably gay or bi. shudders
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What part of your ass did you pull that from?Gays have no other hole to use in that sense. Except for oralsex, it's the only way the can be together in that way. That's why the common misunderstanding is that your gay if you use that area, although it's of pragmatism the gays use it. There is nothing else to use, if you know what I mean.When a straight guy use that area, it's the same princip as stroking your cock. You are stimulating an sexual area to achieve sexual pleasure. Same thing. Same motive. No difference. Homosexuality is about being attracted to, and falling in love with the same sex.Clearly you haven't been paying attention.
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I'm a female, and i do it to my boyfriend quite often and he loves it. I has been said that the prostate for men is the equivalent of the g spot for women, so it's all good. I personally dont like it, but my guy really enjoys it so i do it to him!
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this is very true. i gotta get my wife to do it. she's on the rag right now so pleasure is all mine :smile: although i'm DYING for hot sex w/ her. she's been giving me incredible head this week, so i'm gonna have to ask while she gives it to me to give me a lil' anal play! :smile:
btw this reminds me of one time we were in the tub together and she was playing w/ me and i was playing w/ my balls and stuff. i had the idea to put somthing in my anal so i grabbed my razor, a mach3 turbo (u know the vibrating one) and put the HANDLE (NOT the razor part) around and in my anal with it on and vibrating. it was very nice, kinda made my leg shudder and shake. it was pretty nice.
also about "being" gay. auto-sex (self sucking) and anal play is not being/turning gay. letting a guy do sexual things to you, now THAT'S gay.
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> she's on the rag right
huh?
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I fingered my ass for the first time tonight!!! It was actually really good, I only got to two fingers though. Now every time I wipe or something I get that tingley sensation, but it feels nice.
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She is menstruating, and is thus not interested in having sexual relations with her husband. It's not clear whether she would be interested in having sexual relations with someone else, though.
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In reply to: In fact, I'd do it myself, but I'm too muscle bound and tend to cramp up in "compromising positions" lmao dmmit that's so funny ,being rather barrel-chested myself.