thanks for the clarification.
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Fingering your own ass?
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yea sorry "on the rag" = menstrating = period. butt spanking of anal play (hehe, did u catch the puns?) i played w/ an ice cube in my anal yesterday, the cold sensation was nice and it made me cum like it was the first time (i jerked twice yesterday, and usually the 2nd time isn't as much as the first)
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I do it sometimes i notice my hole is wider now will the hole go back to normal width?
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uh, I dont know about that... Are you sure that it's not just because you never really looked at the hole before, and that you're just surprised how big it is? Because it would be natural for the hole to be accostumed to anal penetration, and thus widening easier, and with less and less pain. But the hole getting bigger in itself?Anyhow, have you done it with a tool, any object other than your fingers?
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maybe i am shocked never noticed it before
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i tryed ice cubes the other night i got the idea from an early post it felt realy good while i inserted them but as they started to melt the fealing died.any one elce tryed any ting different than fingers and dildos
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the anus cant become "loose", but it's all about muscle sphincsters and with stimulation it can open up and contract a lot on it's own.
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Exactly, an inner and an outer (its the outer you can see, the inner open up to the rectum about 2 and half inch inside. They shouldnt become loose, or bigger so to speak, only more flexible.
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very true.... i used to do a lot of anal play when i was younger years back, and i thought my butt was getting 'loose' but i stopped and realized it was just getting the ability to stretch more, and so its all good, im still as 'tight' as i used to be
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yea about the ice cubes. if u keep playing ur anal will go numb! so that's y the feeling died b/c ur prostate began/went numb. i cummed before that happned. tho when i finished upon standing i realized my fingers were pretty much numb.
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In reply to:For those of you giving up on anal masturbation after not doing much for them: before you give up on it, make sure you masturbate to orgasm while having something in your anus and hitting your prostate - that's where the real fun is. Having something in your anus and against your prostate while cumming makes the orgasm much more intense and longer lasting. I don't get much enjoyment just playing with my ass either - but when I orgasm while playing with my ass, the orgasm is like WOW!Hehe, I hear you! That just has to be among the most underestimated masturbation techniques... It's pretty easy to do too... Just have a shower before and clean yourself a bit there if you feel like it, and keep the middle finger (basically most/all of it for me) inserted and remaining there when you are aroused, about to, and do come. As simple as it sounds, and orgasm explosion! Not good enough? Then try start pushing your finger towards the spot while coming, lol!I also doubted before where the physical "orgasm feeling" really came from, and after doing this, I had no doubt it comes from the prostate, and actually not the penis. To me it feels like my finger is stimulating the actual "center" of the orgasm, it's so intense. No wonder it can be mind blowing. More men should use the fact that they actually have both a penis and an orifice for great sexual pleasure. After getting over the anal "fear" and that it's nothing to worry about, I sure can't complain.If you don't feel like you need to go to the bathroom before you start, and you hadn't been there recently, you should notice that the body on its own does a surprisingly good job at keeping wastes out of there. I can without any special preparations basically put in a finger, take it out, and see nothing. Wash your hands afterwards with soap, and you're done.Hmm, all this talk makes me want to try it out again... I haven't experimented enough to see if I can get a solo "anal orgasm". I feel very little when just doing it alone. But maybe with a little "help" (stopping penis masturbation a short while before), I could pull it off... hehe
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In reply to: If you don't feel like you need to go to the bathroom before you start, and you hadn't been there recently, you should notice that the body on its own does a surprisingly good job at keeping wastes out of there. I can without any special preparations basically put in a finger, take it out, and see nothing. Wash your hands afterwards with soap, and you're done. Well, you're lucky with that. I haven't been that lucky unfortunately. Nine times out of 10, I'll pull my finger out and there will be shit on it, and I find it absolutely disgusting. Its the one thing that keeps me from anally masturbating more - I wish it were clean up there all the time. During the rare times it is clean, its so much fun! I don't understand why this is - it sounds like most guys who anally masturbate or have anal sex are clean up there all the time naturally (without cleaning) too, like you are. I don't understand why I always have shit up there, or even residual crap if I just took a dump.
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Just clean yourself up there thoroughly, i never have any problems. Try your shower head on full power, you may even enjoy it too...
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The basic rule is that unless you feel that you have to go, the rectum should be empty. I think I've only seen my dick come out visably diry once out of a number of sessions with a few different women. Personally, I prefer to ensure personal cleanlyness before letting anyone play with me.
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In reply to: The basic rule is that unless you feel that you have to go, the rectum should be empty. Well, mine definitely isn't most times. I don't know what the deal is. Maybe I don't have a self cleaning rectum like everyone else.
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i never fingered, never got it up far enough...but i DID grap one of my sisters razors and stuck the not-sharp end up there is feels weird i got scared it would get stuck so i pulled it out...
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Don't worry, you're not alone. I probably don't a diet rich enough in fibers because every once in a while I'll have feces hanging at the entrance of my rectum, not going back up but not pushing out either, which is really annoying.
Personally, I first wash my anus, then slip a finger inside. If I feel a turd inside (and it happens every once in a while), I simply go on the toilet and push as much out as possible. After that, I wash my anus and finger again, then push it back inside, and start playing with myself. Sure, my rectum is probably a bit dirty/slimy, but my finger never goes anywhere else until I come anyway, so it doesn't bother me if it's not squeaky clean. At the worst, I'll pull it out covered in slightly brown lube, so I wash it with plenty of soap in hot water (twice) until it no longer smells, and that's it.
Quite frankly, if you're not prepared for at least a bit of shit during anal activities, maybe you just shouldn't be doing any. Or else, use condoms or gloves. But shit in any capacity is pretty much inevitable. I remember reading on a serious anal sex site, that once you push inside, there's not way to know what you'll encounter; it might be clean and empty, or it might be full and dirty. The only way to know is to try :wink:
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Thanks ShyGuy666 - glad I'm not the only one that doesn't have a perfectly clean rectum all the time In reply to: If I feel a turd inside (and it happens every once in a while), I simply go on the toilet and push as much out as possible. Just a piece of advice for you - you shouldn't push hard like that - that's how you get hemmoroids, and those are not fun. Bowel movements should always be relaxed - never push. You're better off using an enema to clean up there instead of forcing residual poop out. In reply to:Quite frankly, if you're not prepared for at least a bit of shit during anal activities, maybe you just shouldn't be doing any. Yeah, that's pretty much why I stopped doing anal masturbation. The mess isn't worth the pleasure to me.