Hey guys! I recently met this gorgeous girl at the party and we've talked a bit on msn. I dont know her feelings towards me exactly but it seems like she is slightly interested in getting to know me better ( I might be wrong). So, I am thinking of asking her out. I have gone out with other girls and so on, but I have a question to you guys. Do you think its realistic for me to get a kiss on the first date if she is in fact slightly interested in me? If yes, then how so? Should it come naturally or should I tell her something... I really have no time to waste, thats why I need to know your opinions guys, thanks!
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Asking her out and getting what you need
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no time to waste? you wanna get into her pants or something? Dude if you have been with other girls before why ask for advice? Use your past experience to guide you.
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well, in the past, I didnt really have to deal with this type of dating. I met a girl and I either knew her for a long time and then we just naturally got together or we just met each other at the party and made out, then its different... you know. Its not that I want to get in her pants, ists just that I am not sure if thats normal on the first date yo uknow... we've danced and stuff a tthe party... but you know...
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dude the first kiss should always come naturally unless you are just tryin to get in her pants but a kiss on the first date tho usually isnt a prob for most girls if they are interested
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no buddy i dont know...so you've dated girls you've known and girls you didnt know, what makes this girl any different? She sounds like someone that could go on your "dont know" list.
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yep... but it also depends on the girl I guess. Some girls are easy with that, they try to lead and make a move. Thats how it should be I believe. But a girl that is a bit more shy will wait for a guy to make a first move I assume. So my question is when should you make that move and how? I mean if she hugs you and waits then its obvious, but if that doesnt happen, I guess you have to look for some other way of approaching her. The question is what would be the best way?
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The whole first kiss thing will happen if it happens, simply that.But I believe that if you have known her, preferablly in person, for a good deal of time such as a classmate or co-worker, that your chances will increase. You are already friends so that kiss may come sooner than normal depending on how deep down inside your feelings for each other were.As far as you talking to her on MSN then meeting her, well, if it happens it happens. If not, just go out again and get to know her better. The more you guys know each other and feel comfortable wanting the same thing, wham...it'll happen.